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Originally Posted by ZTA_girl
I have been hooking up with a guy for about 2 months now. From my perspective, what we have is just a "friends with benefits" type of thing.
However, every time we hook up he gets very snuggly and cuddly and lovey-dovey, and he begs me to spend the night with him. He kisses me on the face when I am asleep, cuddles with me all night, cooks me breakfast, and we have really in-depth conversations about our lives, etc.
The thing is, he never contacts me about hooking up -- I am always the one initiating our time together. He always responds very eagerly, but then he never texts me first. I see him around campus frequently, and I catch him looking at me, but he rarely says hi.
I am trying to figure out if he sees me as more than just a hook-up buddy- any advice?
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Why should he bother contacting you about hooking up when he knows you are going to come to him? That would mean more effort on his part from what he's already doing and potentially setting himself up to get his request rejected.
If his behavior is cause for your concern talk to him about it. If you are only looking for hookups and nothing else, my suggestion would be to stop hooking up with this guy because he likely cant handle a "friends with benefits" type of relationship with you. If a hookup is all you are looking for at this time, it wont be hard to find another guy on your campus willing to have free sex with no strings attached.
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