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Originally Posted by LadyKnight
However, I was dropped from the facebook group for the spring recruitment. I talked to the VP of membership, she said it must've been a mistake and not to worry about anything. Upon trying to rejoin I was denied, so the question is am I wasting my time in trying to join this sorority?
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Yes.
If you talked to her specifically about this issue and she said it was a computer mistake and was aware of it, and they're looking for interested women in that manner and you were a viable candidate (which you are as far as grades and having a uterus) she should have SENT YOU AN INVITE to rejoin. The fact that you were denied when you tried?? After pointing it out? The only way they could get more blatant is to send you a giant banner in the mail that says KTHXBYE.
Your friend in the chapter sounds like she has been pushing you to the point that she's trying to shove you down sisters' throats, and if they were neutral on you before, they're probably sick of hearing about you now and you would have to be super blazing fire awesomesauce before they'd give you the benefit of the doubt. Also if she's giving you all this inside information - and that she's telling you things like they have an open room, that's really sister info - that's not going to go over too well.
I have no idea about the climate of your school and this chapter concerning alcohol, but if you're 21+ and have gone overboard eliminating any pictures of a **legal** activity that you've engaged in, that could be a negative factor rather than a positive and make you seem stuffy. I don't mean a picture of you doing a kegstand, I mean a picture of women in a restaurant having a glass of wine. The reason sorority women who are of age don't display alcohol photos is because the sorority forces them not to. You're not in a sorority. You don't have to follow those rules.
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