Well I would disagree with you, I mean, there are also a lot of GDIs that do not like commitment. People may not like to commit for different reasons--school,school involvement,work,finances (yeah I've heard of guys who "cant afford" to have a girl)and maybe they have their own personal problems they want to deal with first. Being Greek already takes up a lot of a person's time to start with and it is up for the people in the relationship to make it work--because if you guys really want to put time aside and do anything to make it work and be used to making adjustments or compromises for each other's schedules, it will.
Trying to bounce back from a breakup, I think it will do me a world of good to be by myself for awhile, it will help me figure out what i really want--get back with him or just be content to be friends, or do i even want a guy in the first place at the moment. it will also help me catch up on stuff that I haven't done in awhile, or at least done less.
Although if heaven permits and I find myself with a new guy next semester, it would great if he would be Greek again--I just had the greatest time attending formals and stuff, plus he understands the commitment a GLO requires, the interesting traditions (ex. sweetheart songs) and of course, there's the great Greek love present...that also binds us all in the GC network!
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"To supress our feelings only makes them stronger"--from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
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