What he seems to be missing is that this goes both ways.
He also seems to be missing that "honor" and "responsibility" aren't quantitative things.
And yes, this is used so much more to shame than it is to inspire that the message in general is completely lost.
As far as "committing my life to that special person" - well, just because XYZ man #1 was a dickhead and lousy in bed, doesn't mean I'll never date or associate with another XYZ. If I felt that way, I wouldn't have some of the best friends ever. I believe I'm the norm, not the exception.
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