While I think the OP made a mistake in airing all this here, I suspect she came here looking for advice and information from people in the know - other Greeks. And while it was unwise to speak specifically of a certain group online, I think if most of us are honest, there are things we don't like about different groups - even our own. I love Tri Delta as a package, but there are aspects of other groups I like better than my own. And there are things about other groups that I don't like at all. So she doesn't like the way the letters look. Fine. She's human. It's a mistake to air it here by name, but I guess I'm willing to cut her a bit of slack. If I were going to pick a sorority based on the way the letters look, I don't think I would have picked Tri Delta. Just sayin'. I know it is the total package, but I'm guessing the comment about the letters thing by the OP was more just a venting of a small part of something much bigger. She even said herself it was a stupid thing to be upset about.
How many of us might have said something stupid online about Greek related things when we were in school if Greek Chat existed at that time? It's easy to lose your head in the heat of the frustration and disappointment.
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