Greek or non-Greek? Hmmn. At my school, it's so hard to find a non-greek who won't be an ass because of your letters(we have a very small greek population and a large anti-greek one) but its just as hard, if not more difficult to find a fraternity guy who is worthy of dating. My last boyfriend and I had an understanding: our houses were important to both of us, and we both knew that there might be times where we'd have to put them before each other. The difference between his house and mine is that mine never made me choose between him and them. His did. Needless to say, he's still in that house, and we're not together.
As for dating non-greek men, I'd love to. If I could find a guy that could understand and respect my love for my sorority and the responsibilites which that holds, great! It would be nice, actually to have friends that were just mine. I know that sounds greedy, but our greek system is so small everyone knows everyone. It would be nice to keep my relationship out of everyone's business. However, on their defense, fraternity boys, in general, are more gentlemanly(opening doors, being polite, etc.) And I have lots of good friends who are in fraternities, and they're great guys. However, a lot of them are just little boys who want nothing more than one-night stands. t
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