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Originally Posted by Elphie
Right now, I feel like I really don't belong in Rose, but I'm torn between the other three! Right now, if I were to somehow be offered bids to all three, I have no clue which I'd pick. Is this normal? It seems like some girls just "know" where they should be, but I can't decide and I'm terrified of making the wrong choice... suddenly three days of rush doesn't seem nearly enough.
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Elphie,
If you read any one of the recruitment stories on here, you'll see that this feeling is really common. The first day is this overwhelming flood of sorority girl pep and cheer, but when it comes down to your final parties, when you're in a smaller group of potential new sisters and the preference ceremonies are more somber, you'll have a bit of a new perspective. Don't worry about not having a "tops" right now, in a way I think that's an advantage! If you work hard to maintain that open frame of mind, it will only benefit you in recruitment (and in life, for that matter).
And I'd argue that, unless one sorority is a group of masochistic baby eaters, there is no "wrong" choice. Each and every sorority has its highs and lows, every chapter. Every chapter has issues with which it struggles. And each and every chapter has sisters who love each other and would cut off their right arm to do right by each other.
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