A lot of good advice already.
I will add that, in my experience, there were always a couple of NM's that ohmygodtheyaresocuteandawesomewearesoexcitedtogett hem. Very often, these girls turned out to be either mediocre members or outright pains in the ass as soon as everyone stopped fawning all over them. Meanwhile, the girls who took a little longer to come out of their shells became the backbone of the pledge class, and later on, the officers and girls that everyone would stop by the house just to hang out with.
Being a "twin" is a bit tough, too, but remember that just means your big wanted two people so badly that she couldn't decide between you two.
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