Curious,
it has always been my belief and my stance that you should NEVER compromise your self-respect for anyone or anything. I realize that you want to be a part of this sisterhood but never compromise those things/principles/values that you cannot get back. I have heard of similiar situations and worse and it's truly unfortunate. I was always treated and respected as a woman first and a pledgee second when I was pledging. Just keep in mind, that when you have a question or something really doesn't seem right..just ask. Afterall, we are in our respective sisterhoods FOR LIFE!!!!! You need to be sure because there's no turning back.
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