Deferred Rush at a Small School

[carnation]

By #2, I think she's asking if all her non-legacy sororities will cut her because they think she only wants her legacy group. I don't know your school or its traditions so I have no idea, OP, but it's getting to be a huge problem in the South.

[LbrlArtsRushee]

Originally Posted by carnation

By #2, I think she's asking if all her non-legacy sororities will cut her because they think she only wants her legacy group. I don't know your school or its traditions so I have no idea, OP, but it's getting to be a huge problem in the South.

That is EXACTLY what I meant. I'm very afraid of that happening to me.

I probably should have worded my OP differently/better, I understand recruitment is a mutual selection. And as for guaranteed bidding no girl at my school (in the past 10 years) has ever been cut before pref night. Every girl who rushes gets a bid SOMEWHERE. Please keep up the helpful info! If you have any other general recruitment advice for deferred rush or rush at a small school like this please post it here. Thank you guys

[Blue Skies]

Originally Posted by carnation

By #2, I think she's asking if all her non-legacy sororities will cut her because they think she only wants her legacy group. I don't know your school or its traditions so I have no idea, OP, but it's getting to be a huge problem in the South.

This is why I think that the only people who need to know that you're an XYZ legacy are the sisters of XYZ. Let your sibling write the rec (or find someone in her GLO to write the rec, mentioning that you're a legacy) and leave the legacy section on your recruitment registration blank.

But if the milk is already spilled, and everyone already knows, then make a point of mentioning to each chapter, as you go through recruitment, that you are keeping an open mind to all the chapters.