Texas Tech Rush. Help!

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

I only posted to get help, not to get talked to like an idiot. Excuse me for not being in a sorority sooner. I'll just read everyone elses forums instead of posting my own next time.

*FLOUNCE*

First off, no one was talking to you like you were an idiot, you Mark Twained yourself into that one.

Second, you might as well stop while you're...not so far behind.

[agzg]

Wow isn't it a little early for the train-wrecky "ZOMG YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME!!!!!!" threads? I mean recruitment is like, 9 months away.

[southbymidwest]

Originally Posted by agzg

Wow isn't it a little early for the train-wrecky "ZOMG YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME!!!!!!" threads? I mean recruitment is like, 9 months away.

Deferred recruitment for a number of schools starts in early January.

[agzg]

Originally Posted by southbymidwest

Deferred recruitment for a number of schools starts in early January.

Is that the case for Texas Tech? (ETA: Texas Tech has fall formal recruitment and COR in the Spring).

Deferred recruitment threads almost never get as wrecky as fall recruitment threads, it seems. Most of the time the deferred threads end up with a discussion between the pro- and anti-deferred camps here on GC.

[SamanthaBay]

Im just trying to get ahead of the game ok agzg. Theres nothing wrong with that.

and DeltaBetaBaby, I havent posted enough information on here for someone to figure out my identity. The world is not that small.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Im just trying to get ahead of the game ok agzg. Theres nothing wrong with that.

and DeltaBetaBaby, I havent posted enough information on here for someone to figure out my identity. The world is not that small.

Darn, I should've QFP. What she originally said is, the way you all are typing to her makes her no longer really want to be in a sorority.


No matter how old one is, they need to learn when they need others more than others need them; and when it's time to just shut up and read. She imagined the meanness, anyway.

[Alumiyum]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Haha, after listening to all talk to me and the way you do I really dont want to rush now. Thanks ladies! agzg, im just trying to get ahead of the game theres nothing wrong with that.

First, not everyone gets all touchy and twitchy at PNMs trying to get information, but posts like this will turn off the rest of us who might remain a little more cordial. So...cut that out.

Your age might hurt you. It's reality. It's happened on my campus, and the main reason (speaking for my chapter, at least, since I obviously am not privy to selection for the others) was that they were wary of having a 25 year old new member and were worried that she might not be able to handle 18 and 19 year olds telling her what to do all that well. And that's something to consider. Girls much younger and less experienced than yourself will be running the chapter you join, and you have to be ok with that.

If you are, you'll need to:
-Get recs. Search for recs+Texas Tec here to get more specific information as well as general threads on recs which will help you find them if you don't know many Greek alums.
-Practice conversation skills. You'll need to be confident and at ease talking to 18-22 year old strangers. Practice small talk whenever you can.
-Package yourself. Include on your resume your volunteer work, activities, honors, etc. This is a great place to brag on yourself because trust me, no one else will.
-Make sure you have a good GPA. This is going to be important no matter where you are.
-Look your best. Pick outfits that you feel confident in, are appropriate for the occasion (your recruitment counselors will help you with specifics, since what to wear when differs from campus to campus), and look nice. This doesn't have to mean expensive...what it does mean is outfits that fit you correctly, make you feel confident, and have no stains etc. Be well groomed (brush your hair and teeth, wear deodorant, make sure whatever make up you use is fresh...the basics).
-Have an open mind.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

and DeltaBetaBaby, I havent posted enough information on here for someone to figure out my identity. The world is not that small.

Transfer to Texas Tech; 22 years old with sophomore standing; worked with Big Brothers/Big Sisters, SPCA and Habitat for Humanity in Dallas. No, no one would have a clue.

Given that people very familiar with Texas Tech read and post here regularly, the world is that small.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Transfer to Texas Tech; 22 years old with sophomore standing; worked with Big Brothers/Big Sisters, SPCA and Habitat for Humanity in Dallas. No, no one would have a clue.

Given that people very familiar with Texas Tech read and post here regularly, the world is that small.

LOL.

And Alumiyum got the QFP.

[Alumiyum]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

LOL.

And Alumiyum got the QFP.

I didn't even notice she edited that...nice.

[SamanthaBay]

Theres a few who havent exactly been the definition of cordial, so I'll respond how I feel they have responded to me. I'm not angry, upset, or touchy. Look ladies, my point is I know the age is a factor. I am completely realistic in the fact that it might be a strike against me and I understand it. Maybe I worded things wrong but all I was asking for were for some helpful information on how to over come the age factor, thats all. You all have been through this process before, I have not. You cant penalize me for that. I dont have any expectations on how I things work like ladylonghorn quoted

" But somehow I feel like your definition of "helpful ideas" is some OMG SUPER SECRET FOR SURE WAY TO MAKE ALL THE SORORITIES WANT YOU NO MATTER WHAT THEIR MEMBERSHIP SELECTION CRITERIA ARE BECAUSE YOU ARE A SUPER SPECIAL UNIQUE AND PERFECT SNOWFLAKE WHO EVERYONE SHOULD WANT."

That to me is a little snippy and uncalled for which is why I have responded the way I did to these posts. Age to me is not a huge deal. I dont mind associating myself with younger girls because at the end of the day we are all rushing a sorority for the same reasons. I will only be 22. Granted that is a large difference but Im not rushing a sorority for the age group of girls. That is not important to me. So thank you Alumiyum for answering my questions. I have an open mind and I have no expectations.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Theres a few who havent exactly been the definition of cordial, so I'll respond how I feel they have responded to me. I'm not angry, upset, or touchy. Look ladies, my point is I know the age is a factor. I am completely realistic in the fact that it might be a strike against me and I understand it. Maybe I worded things wrong but all I was asking for were for some helpful information on how to over come the age factor, thats all. You all have been through this process before, I have not. You cant penalize me for that. I dont have any expectations on how I things work like ladylonghorn quoted

" But somehow I feel like your definition of "helpful ideas" is some OMG SUPER SECRET FOR SURE WAY TO MAKE ALL THE SORORITIES WANT YOU NO MATTER WHAT THEIR MEMBERSHIP SELECTION CRITERIA ARE BECAUSE YOU ARE A SUPER SPECIAL UNIQUE AND PERFECT SNOWFLAKE WHO EVERYONE SHOULD WANT."

That to me is a little snippy and uncalled for which is why I have responded the way I did to these posts. Age to me is not a huge deal. I dont mind associating myself with younger girls because at the end of the day we are all rushing a sorority for the same reasons. I will only be 22. Granted that is a large difference but Im not rushing a sorority for the age group of girls. That is not important to me. So thank you Alumiyum for answering my questions. I have an open mind and I have no expectations.

You haven't been on this board long enough to know whether you are missing someone's tongue-in-cheekness. A smarter way to handle that (and to handle recruitment) is to look for the POINT being conveyed instead of being stuck on how it was conveyed and trying to win an imagined battle. These ladies are the sorority members. You are a hopeful--one of many hopefuls who is practically begging for someone to pay attention to you.

Alumiyum was being polite but what she said was essentially said before. You were given links to other threads and at the age of 22 you should know already that how you talk and look matters. DUH. You will have a difficult life if you wait around for people to kiss your forehead before you grasp the point and move on.

[SamanthaBay]

Alphafrog you might not think so.

Ive got to be honest, after all this I'm just so discouraged on the entire situation and I am really turned off to the idea of even rushing a sorority anymore. So I guess youre right Alphafrog. Im done while Im AHEAD. If some of you are "such sorority ladies" I want no part.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Alphafrog you might not think so.

Ive got to be honest, after all this I'm just so discouraged on the entire situation and I am really turned off to the idea of even rushing a sorority anymore. So I guess youre right Alphafrog. Im done while Im AHEAD. If some of you are "such sorority ladies" I want no part.

Since we're being honest here and all, If you can't handle a messageboard, you can't handle rush in Texas. You're probably doing youself a favor if you can't handle the pressure.

PS..... I see we've mastered quotation marks, do you think apostrophes might be in the next lesson?

[IrishLake]

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Hello all!

Im new to this site as a member, I finally decided to join because everyone seems so helpful and friendly and I know you ladies could give me some helpful advice. So, here is my dillema.

I am transfering to Texas Tech for fall of 2011. I am 22 years old and will be at the time of rush. I have read everything I possibly could on the greek life website for Tech, Ive googled just about everything I could find, and read this website front and back. I obviously know I am going to need recs from just about every sorority because of my age, and I dont want my age to be a factor. I will have a sophmore standing. Joining a sorority has always been something Ive wanted to be a part of. I love the idea of a sisterhood while helping in the community. I volunteer here in Dallas as much as I can with Big brothers big sisters, the SPCA, and Habitat for humanity. I feel it would be a huge part of my college experience and my question for you is if anyone is remotely familiar with the Texas Tech recruitment process, what are some helpful hints, tips, ideas..etc.

Also, what is the best way to get recs in the Dallas area if anyone is familiar?

Thanks ladies!

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Theres a few who havent exactly been the definition of cordial, so I'll respond how I feel they have responded to me. I'm not angry, upset, or touchy. Look ladies, my point is I know the age is a factor. I am completely realistic in the fact that it might be a strike against me and I understand it. Maybe I worded things wrong but all I was asking for were for some helpful information on how to over come the age factor, thats all. You all have been through this process before, I have not. You cant penalize me for that. I dont have any expectations on how I things work like ladylonghorn quoted

" But somehow I feel like your definition of "helpful ideas" is some OMG SUPER SECRET FOR SURE WAY TO MAKE ALL THE SORORITIES WANT YOU NO MATTER WHAT THEIR MEMBERSHIP SELECTION CRITERIA ARE BECAUSE YOU ARE A SUPER SPECIAL UNIQUE AND PERFECT SNOWFLAKE WHO EVERYONE SHOULD WANT."

That to me is a little snippy and uncalled for which is why I have responded the way I did to these posts. Age to me is not a huge deal. I dont mind associating myself with younger girls because at the end of the day we are all rushing a sorority for the same reasons. I will only be 22. Granted that is a large difference but Im not rushing a sorority for the age group of girls. That is not important to me. So thank you Alumiyum for answering my questions. I have an open mind and I have no expectations.

Originally Posted by SamanthaBay

Alphafrog you might not think so.

Ive got to be honest, after all this I'm just so discouraged on the entire situation and I am really turned off to the idea of even rushing a sorority anymore. So I guess youre right Alphafrog. Im done while Im AHEAD. If some of you are "such sorority ladies" I want no part.

SamanthaBay, your first post insinuates that you've been reading and lurking for a while, and you finally decided to join and ask your question. If that is indeed the case, then you should realize that the answers you've gotten here (yes, answers, not insults) are the same exact things that have been told to other PNMs in your position. These responses should be no big surprise. It is good you realize your age will work against you, even though you don't want it to. With that, the advice you've gotten about contacting the Dallas Panhel Alum orgs to get Recs for ALL the groups, keeping up your grades (think 4.0, not 3.1), and staying involved is the best advice you're going to get. There are no secret tips or hints to any group at any school. You should realize this if you've been reading here long enough. Brush up on your convo/interviewing skills and be prepared to answer tough questions, like "why are you 22, but only a sophomore and only rushing now?" Then be prepared to be heavily cut.
Best of luck!