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Originally Posted by 33girl
How very swell for you. If you didn't mind wasting your money, whatever turns you on.
(I'm also trying to recall our mixers that had loud music or dancing - that was the bar, not the mixer.)
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You have quite the perspective problem if parties are why you think I spent my money on dues. I didn't waste a dime. And way to avoid the part of my comment that was the most relevant.
Our switches/date dashes/crush parties were always at bars - rented out space with wristbands and cash bar- and had a DJ and dancing.
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Originally Posted by Leslie Anne
Hmm. On my campus mixers (or what we called desserts) always had loud music and dancing. No one danced at the bars.
It's interesting to find out how different campus cultures vary.
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Indeed
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Originally Posted by lucgreek
Mixers were fun, but when you're 21/22 and in a big city, they're not as fun as they once were when you're underage. Though if you had quite a few friends in a certain sorority/fraternity, you never missed those mixers ever.
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Originally Posted by angels&angles
Attendance got more hit-or-miss at mixers as upperclassmen, but it had more to do with work than not wanting to go. The main thing I noticed was that as we got older, our cotumes got more elaborate and less slutty.
NB: This was in a tiny college town with 1.5 bars (there were two bars but one was AWFUL) so without Greek Life, there wasn't a lot to do.
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It's a combination of these two, some people just wanted to do other things, but most had coursework and clinical/practicum/lab requirements that took up a lot of their time.