*looking at pics of a GC member in PR(Puerto Rico) *
WHAT? I haven't even seen them yet! Where is SexyZeta?....Where is the wood?....LOL...
But seriously back to your response...it should be your attitude but for most people often times it is NOT. If you are still pining away for the ex, don't get involved again till you aren't pining nemore...it's THAT simple...