question for anyone who can answer ...
my chapter does not do bigs and little, we stick solely to sister-moms and sister-daughters (we're such a small chapter thats why). i've noticed throughout reading many different threads that PNM's and their families say things like "she can already see this girl being her big," which sounds like the PNM-turned-NM gets to Chose her big. also, when FSUZeta talked about her daughter getting twins, that caught my eye too.
just curious how it works that the NM gets to pick her Big? i would think it would be more special for the NM to be surprised by who her Big is lol
anyway, like i said, just curious how that works =)
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