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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
the vast majority of new members do not feel an instant connection with their chapter. that takes time. it takes more than a year for some girls.
i find it ironic that you state that you feel rejected and that you have had that happen before, but now you seem poised to reject the group that DID want you. This group did not reject you. please give them a chance.
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Yeah, I'm tired of hearing this stuff over and over. A lot of PNMs are in denial about which chapter they belong in. They fixate on houses filled with girls that they want to be, not who they really are. I understand no one wants to think of themselves as a natural fit in the house others deem "lower tier," but if those same women would instead have pride in joining the house and make it the best it can be, they could actually change the reputation of the chapter. Instead, they reject that house, telling the women that just invited them into membership that they would rather be in NO sorority than their sorority. Rude, childish and naive.
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