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Old 09-24-2010, 10:08 AM
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And I guess, from reading her past posts, that this was informal recruitment? There shouldn't be restrictions on number of parties one has to attend in an informal recruitment - chapters basically decide for themselves what they want to do and extend bids to whomever they want.
If it's a structured informal recruitment, there may be times when rushees have to attend a certain number (i.e. they MUST go to all the Meet the Greeks or first round parties). There are lots of things between full out formal and wild wild west style COB.

As to the OP...I thought she sounded semi familar but was too lazy to check. Thanks, Barb.
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Old 09-24-2010, 10:22 AM
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Ok, now I'm confused. Are those her previous posts?
Yes. Seems she has had a few problems with recruitment before.

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After feeling so USED by sophiealexa, I have become cynical. Just really can't believe all this drama of "mean sorority girls all hate me" and "I got cut for no resaon at all and it isn't my fault" and "Greek Life made a HUGE mistake" anymore. Anybody else feel fooled?
Welcome to team Barbie. After the recent flow of bs stories from pnms "wronged" by sorority meanies, I don't believe any of their stories.
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Old 09-24-2010, 10:31 AM
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It makes me doubly question the authenticity when it appears that the PNM lacks the capacity to put together a coherent thought. I know I'm hopped up on antibiotics that are kicking my tail right now, but I can't even figure out half of what she's trying to say.
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Old 09-24-2010, 11:20 AM
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Bottom line: even if something unfair did happen, COB is your next option. Pursue that through the Greek Life office.
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:34 PM
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Try COB, but realize your stories aren't adding up to people on here - they might not add up to the people at your school either. Recruitment fail.
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:37 PM
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Ok i found out what happened and yes this did actually happen sorry if I am a bit all over the place but I am very very stressed.
Ok so our greek life coordinator made the COB list prior to the last day of required recruitment parties. So our attendance to that was not counted. You only needed to attend two but most girls attended 3 ( I had class for one). So yeah it sucks and is unfair but whatever.
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:38 PM
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Ok i found out what happened and yes this did actually happen sorry if I am a bit all over the place but I am very very stressed.
Ok so our greek life coordinator made the COB list prior to the last day of required recruitment parties. So our attendance to that was not counted. You only needed to attend two but most girls attended 3 ( I had class for one). So yeah it sucks and is unfair but whatever.

This.Still.Does.Not.Make.Sense.Whatsoever.
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:39 PM
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Ok i found out what happened and yes this did actually happen sorry if I am a bit all over the place but I am very very stressed.
Ok so our greek life coordinator made the COB list prior to the last day of required recruitment parties. So our attendance to that was not counted. You only needed to attend two but most girls attended 3 ( I had class for one). So yeah it sucks and is unfair but whatever.
That still doesn't explain how your school went from having 4 sororities to having 12. Did you transfer??
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:41 PM
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Im sorry that my school has made a lot of mistakes in the Greek life department but that does not mean i am lying. Things happen that are shitty, I'm willing to COB but i do feel as the though the school should acknowledge the fact that many girls were unfairly cut from recruitment.
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:42 PM
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I said that there was 12 parties in all of 3 days from 4 different sororities not 12 groups
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Old 09-24-2010, 01:44 PM
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Im sorry that my school has made a lot of mistakes in the Greek life department but that does not mean i am lying. Things happen that are shitty, I'm willing to COB but i do feel as the though the school should acknowledge the fact that many girls were unfairly cut from recruitment.
No one said you were lying.

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I said that there was 12 parties in all of 3 days from 4 different sororities not 12 groups

You never said that.

Paging Drolefille or Barbie's_Rush. Headed to the sofa now.
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Old 09-24-2010, 02:02 PM
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but whatever.
If it's just whatever, why are you here complaining about it?
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Old 09-24-2010, 02:13 PM
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It makes me doubly question the authenticity when it appears that the PNM lacks the capacity to put together a coherent thought. I know I'm hopped up on antibiotics that are kicking my tail right now, but I can't even figure out half of what she's trying to say.
I'm medication free (a real miracle with allergy season in Kentucky) and I am having trouble figuring out half of what she is trying to say!
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Old 09-24-2010, 02:23 PM
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This is giving me a headache...no wonder she isn't getting anywhere with the Greek Life people if they are as confused as we are!
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Old 09-24-2010, 02:43 PM
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This is giving me a headache...no wonder she isn't getting anywhere with the Greek Life people if they are as confused as we are!
And maybe her grades are terrible because she can't communicate a coherent thought.

Or maybe the houses just didn't like her and thus she wasn't offered a bid. It's not necessarily to blame on missing a party.
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