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Ask the active what becoming a member of her chapter has meant to her. She just might get misty-eyed when she has to articulate why she wants you to be as interested in her chapter as she is, and she'll remember you for asking such a deep question that touched her. It's also a good way for you to gauge just how much their chapters mean to the members. If you get flip, cutesy answers with a lot of "and ... ums" in them, you might want to look elsewhere. If you get misty-eyed at her answer, however, let her know how impressed you are, and go to the next party if you are invited.
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