I applaud your ambition and your success. You say you don't wnat your chapter to lose identity...but you already have lost the identity of being the smallest fraternity on campus and that's good. Brotherhood is another word for friendship and friendship is enhanced when you're a member of the winning team. Take your newfound membership strength and focus on winning. Anything, everything. Win rush, win sports, win whatever Greeks compete in.
To get the most out of your undergraduate experience your goal should be to create a chapter reputed to be the 'top fraternity' on campus. The biggest isn't always the best but there is no 'top fraternity' that is small relative to the other fraternities. Continue your growth and concentrate on winning. The striving together to win creates brotherhood and a new identity that you will enjoy very much.
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