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Old 09-21-2010, 12:28 PM
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That's the attitude my mother grew up around. She decided when she was ten that SHE was going to be a doctor. She graduated high school at 15, married a law student at 19, and by the time she was 25, she had the husband, two kids, AND the M.D. She had four daughters, and believe me, nobody ever told us that education was for the men.

Oh, and she transferred to a private school after freshman year because the big state school wasn't academically serious enough. Now that's giving the finger to everybody with the old sexist attitude!
That is an awesome story.

A lot of people don't understand that it IS possible for a woman to do both, to have a successful career AND a husband and children. The Life Script of "go to college, join the right sorority, meet your future husband, get married, have children, and be a SAHM" got jammed down many women's throats in my parents' generation. It's a perfectly valid life path, but it's not the ONLY path. My MIL followed the Life Script, minus the joining a sorority and marrying a doctor parts. My mother, like Low C Sharp's mother, got married and had children (just the one in my mom's case) and also pursued a difficult and challenging career as a doctor. Some women decide not to get married at all, or to get married and not have children. All valid choices.
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Old 09-21-2010, 08:04 PM
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Old 09-12-2010, 01:32 PM
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If you're in a SEC school and Miss Transfer comes from another school where she joined your chapter... and you KNOW she went through your SEC rush a year earlier and you know she left to join at school X just to transfer back and affiliated with your chapter ... how does that go?

Do the sororities like this? Case-by-case kinda thing?

If it was entirely up to me, it would feel really sneaky or desperate to have girls transfer in all the time just because they couldn't make it at my school, and I'd definitely question what type of member they'd be.

It would be interesting to have a transfer expect to affiliate and be turned down.
If someone is desperate enough to transfer out then back into a school, I'd think the who idea of being able to say "I'm an XYZ" would surpass the true sorority experience.

I still think it's tacky, though.
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Old 09-12-2010, 03:47 PM
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If you're in a SEC school and Miss Transfer comes from another school where she joined your chapter... and you KNOW she went through your SEC rush a year earlier and you know she left to join at school X just to transfer back and affiliated with your chapter ... how does that go?

Do the sororities like this? Case-by-case kinda thing?

If it was entirely up to me, it would feel really sneaky or desperate to have girls transfer in all the time just because they couldn't make it at my school, and I'd definitely question what type of member they'd be.

It would be interesting to have a transfer expect to affiliate and be turned down.
I can see them refusing to invite her to affiliate.

There's an active thread right now of a girl who was initiated, transferred for a family reason, but the chapter voted against her (2 out of 6 transfers were invited to affiliate. Now she wants to transfer AGAIN to another school with the chapter yet "doesn't plan on trying to affiliate".

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=115894
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