Do I Have A Flashing Neon Sign That Says Freaks Only Over My Head

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...a notoriously BAD place to meet guys--especially native Californian guys. So Cal may be a bit worse than Nor Cal, but still, many guys don't really have a deep abiding sense of family and committment here as much as I've seen in other parts of the country, generally.

Maybe a cool place to meet guys would be at the airport: we could just stand around the terminals waiting for flights from the South, the SE, the NE and the MW and swoop the guy up as he comes off the plane, starry-eyed and optimistic. By the time he would have normally bought into the materialistic, instant gratification den of inequity known as California, he would already be strung out--then you can wisk him back to live in his hometown!

Hey--I could open up a dating service "From Airport to Homefront." ((visions of dollarsigns dancing in my head)).