Question/dilemma to any member of Kappa Alpha Psi

[MasTNX]

Originally Posted by Animate

In all fairness, I think this would only be applied if he was already a member. Even then...he's a person first. A bad decision is a bad decision no matter what affiliations one may have.

He may actually be a good member of an org after being initiated. Its that hurdle of getting initiated that just became the pole vault.

It has been a while since I've been in college, but I remember LOTS of saying the right thing, being at the right place and PROVING YOURSELF for NPHC interests. Many of my friends thought about the organizations they wanted to join for months and years before actually making line. They (sometimes desperately) wanted to be liked by the members, so they would be chosen for membership. This guy played with fire by hanging out with someone's girl. There are some guys who wouldn't feel comfortable with just that much interaction. But hey, I don't know the people involved and this may not be a big deal to any of them.

Maybe he would make a good member, but he doesn't sound like a great brother.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by Tre 1

I have a question to any of the Kappas on here, if there is any. I didn't feel comfortable asking this on PP or Black Greek Forum because there are too many Kappas posting on them, and most of them didn't seem to be very friendly. Are there any Kappas posting on here? because I didn't see any. If there are I just have a question. I'm actually down to be on line this fall and I won't say which school. There's a total of 5 of us that are pledging this fall, and I feel very fortunate to be one of the 5. The problem is this summer I started hanging out with one of the members girl. She and I live in the same city and have known each other since highschool. We've always been friends, nothing more, nothing less. Eventually, one thing led to another and I had sex with her. She knows how much I want to be a Kappa, and she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years, so we decided to keep it under wraps. I'm just afraid that it's going to get out, so I'm wondering if I should just tell him and get it over with. I'm just afraid that if he finds out or even if I do tell him, I'll get cut from line. For the Kappas on here who have girls if a line member had sex with your girl and told you the truth, would you tell him he can't be down anymore? I'm just need some advice. Thanks in advance.

Tre

There is a Kappa Alpha Psi forum on here. Go over there and introduce yourself. I am sure they can help you with the question better than any of us can. Oh and I am on PP, so I will be sure to let the Kappas over there know of your concern.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

There is a Kappa Alpha Psi forum on here. Go over there and introduce yourself. I am sure they can help you with the question better than any of us can. Oh and I am on PP, so I will be sure to let the Kappas over there know of your concern.

You are just as sweet as sugar pie.

[Tre 1]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

There is a Kappa Alpha Psi forum on here. Go over there and introduce yourself. I am sure they can help you with the question better than any of us can. Oh and I am on PP, so I will be sure to let the Kappas over there know of your concern.

I tried posting it over in the Kappa forum, but it said I had to wait to do that.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by Tre 1

I tried posting it over in the Kappa forum, but it said I had to wait to do that.

yep because you had to post in the GL Intro forum first and now you have. But all you had to post here was a "hello."

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by Tre 1

It was one of those things that just happened.

[LatinaAlumna]

OP should enjoy his membership in the I.F.F.

[Senusret I]

Oh dear.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

Oh dear.

Two words...that's all it took to have me cracking up.

[DaemonSeid]

hehehe....I hope this dumb ass had the sense enough to also at least wear a condom.

Hey Tre, um....did you also consider option THREE...SHUTTING THE HELL UP ABOUT IT?

(OMGz I jes' had sex with this frat guy's gurlfriend!!) How lame does this sound? And worse you WANT to find another Kappa to run tell that?????? JESUS!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU KIDS NOWADAYS??

Dude, bro or no bro, if I found out that you did that....there would be some FURNITURE moving and what's WORSE is whose back you think some of those guys would have...YOURS or their frat ?

And then the young lady in question? Wow.

Why did you post this?

Can I call troll?

[agzg]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

hehehe....I hope this dumb ass had the sense enough to also at least wear a condom.

Hey Tre, um....did you also consider option THREE...SHUTTING THE HELL UP ABOUT IT?

(OMGz I jes' had sex with this frat guy's gurlfriend!!) How lame does this sound? And worse you WANT to find another Kappa to run tell that?????? JESUS!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU KIDS NOWADAYS??

Dude, bro or no bro, if I found out that you did that....there would be some FURNITURE moving and what's WORSE is whose back you think some of those guys would have...YOURS or their frat ?

And then the young lady in question? Wow.

Why did you post this?

Can I call troll?

Run and tell that, run and tell that!

[APhiQuetieACE]

1) Being someone's friend and being their potential Brother are VERY different in my opinion.

2) Do you consider him a friend?

3) Is his girlfriend interested in confessing?

[nica1991]

Originally Posted by Tre 1

I have a question to any of the Kappas on here, if there is any. I didn't feel comfortable asking this on PP or Black Greek Forum because there are too many Kappas posting on them, and most of them didn't seem to be very friendly. Are there any Kappas posting on here? because I didn't see any. If there are I just have a question. I'm actually down to be on line this fall and I won't say which school. There's a total of 5 of us that are pledging this fall, and I feel very fortunate to be one of the 5. The problem is this summer I started hanging out with one of the members girl. She and I live in the same city and have known each other since highschool. We've always been friends, nothing more, nothing less. Eventually, one thing led to another and I had sex with her. She knows how much I want to be a Kappa, and she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years, so we decided to keep it under wraps. I'm just afraid that it's going to get out, so I'm wondering if I should just tell him and get it over with. I'm just afraid that if he finds out or even if I do tell him, I'll get cut from line. For the Kappas on here who have girls if a line member had sex with your girl and told you the truth, would you tell him he can't be down anymore? I'm just need some advice. Thanks in advance.

Tre

I dont think you really should've posted this on here, because now u letting every other Kappa know ur business which doesnt look good on you or your chapter part...and u coulda just let that shit flew passed u in my opinion
BUT U BETTA HOPE THAT IT DONT GET OUT CAUSE IF IT DOES THEN THAT MEAN THAT U DISRESPECTED YOUR BROTHER...
and u not suppose to tell nobody that yu line and since its on here everybody know and I am cool with a lot of Kappas at my school and they wouldn't approve of u putting your business out like that cause it looks bad for the origanization

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by nica1991

I dont think you really should've posted this on here, because now u letting every other Kappa know ur business which doesnt look good on you or your chapter part...and u coulda just let that shit flew passed u in my opinion
BUT U BETTA HOPE THAT IT DONT GET OUT CAUSE IF IT DOES THEN THAT MEAN THAT U DISRESPECTED YOUR BROTHER...
and u not suppose to tell nobody that yu line and since its on here everybody know and I am cool with a lot of Kappas at my school and they wouldn't approve of u putting your business out like that cause it looks bad for the origanization

Well thank god you're here to put your foot down.

[dreamseeker]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

Well thank god you're here to put your foot down.