Don't listen to him.... at Vandy you'll sound like a tool if you say "fraternity" it reminds me of that obnoxious panhel president i wanted to smack! You do have a shot at getting a bid from a good frat. Beta and Pike both gave out bids last fall, as did Kappa Sig i think. Not sure about KA AEPi ZBT Deke. I doubt SAE and SigChi did. Lambda Chi isn't awful because a lot of pretty girls go there. ATO sigma nu and Phi Delt almost definitely give fall bids, and Phi Delt has gotten really good really fast. I personally like ATO but a lot of people think they are awful. If you want a good bid i wouldnt try sigma nu.
Just make sure youre at the first parties of the year and befriend all the soph-senior guys you know in the frats you want. You can definitely go places where you don;t know guys (if you can get in) but my best adfvice is to find friends from your hall/house/intramurals/class/whatever you do at school and tag along to their frat's parties because its way easier jumping into that situation with a friend to keep you company.
GOOD LUCK!
Don't listen to him.... at Vandy you'll sound like a tool if you say "fraternity" it reminds me of that obnoxious panhel president i wanted to smack! You do have a shot at getting a bid from a good frat. Beta and Pike both gave out bids last fall, as did Kappa Sig i think. Not sure about KA AEPi ZBT Deke. I doubt SAE and SigChi did. Lambda Chi isn't awful because a lot of pretty girls go there. ATO sigma nu and Phi Delt almost definitely give fall bids, and Phi Delt has gotten really good really fast. I personally like ATO but a lot of people think they are awful. If you want a good bid i wouldnt try sigma nu.
Just make sure youre at the first parties of the year and befriend all the soph-senior guys you know in the frats you want. You can definitely go places where you don;t know guys (if you can get in) but my best adfvice is to find friends from your hall/house/intramurals/class/whatever you do at school and tag along to their frat's parties because its way easier jumping into that situation with a friend to keep you company.
GOOD LUCK!
I'm sorry, what fraternity are you in?
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