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08-05-2010, 01:26 PM
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Bigamy, polygamy, communal/group marriages. Any problems with these? Just wondering where others draw their lines as there are many out there who would postulate for rights that you might want to deny them. What would give you that right?
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This one is the easy one - we have nearly 200 years' worth of rulings that there is a rational basis for banning polygamy and communal marriages, mostly based on the potential for abuse and the difficulty of legally sanctioning (and enforcing) those contracts (for example, how can we be sure that the first wife is "OK" with the second marriage, free of coercion?). Now, if things have changed enough that polygamy will equal something other than "one man, many wives, starting from age 14" then I'd be for it, presuming the contractual difficulties could be sorted out - after all, what do I care, and once we've eliminated that harm that is the rational basis for the ban, who is getting hurt?
Close relatives is dicier, but rooted in science - in many places, first cousins are fine, for example.
Either way though, "slippery slope" is a terrible reason to fight something, particularly when your worst-case scenario for falling down the slope is brothers/sisters or bigamy - I'm not exactly sure those are apocalyptic consequences.
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08-05-2010, 01:50 PM
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This one is the easy one - we have nearly 200 years' worth of rulings that there is a rational basis for banning polygamy and communal marriages, mostly based on the potential for abuse and the difficulty of legally sanctioning (and enforcing) those contracts (for example, how can we be sure that the first wife is "OK" with the second marriage, free of coercion?). Now, if things have changed enough that polygamy will equal something other than "one man, many wives, starting from age 14" then I'd be for it, presuming the contractual difficulties could be sorted out - after all, what do I care, and once we've eliminated that harm that is the rational basis for the ban, who is getting hurt?
Close relatives is dicier, but rooted in science - in many places, first cousins are fine, for example.
Either way though, "slippery slope" is a terrible reason to fight something, particularly when your worst-case scenario for falling down the slope is brothers/sisters or bigamy - I'm not exactly sure those are apocalyptic consequences.
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Since it's my cause du jour, I want to make a distinction between religious polygamy and other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships. The latter is entirely different from the former.
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08-05-2010, 01:58 PM
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Since it's my cause du jour, I want to make a distinction between religious polygamy and other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships. The latter is entirely different from the former.
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Feel free to make that distinction and fight for your cause.
However, the law really can't make that distinction (at least not easily) - you can understand why I've treated them the same for purposes of this discussion, I'm sure? I don't mean any offense by lumping them together, or to imply one is akin to the other.
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08-05-2010, 02:06 PM
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Feel free to make that distinction and fight for your cause.
However, the law really can't make that distinction (at least not easily) - you can understand why I've treated them the same for purposes of this discussion, I'm sure? I don't mean any offense by lumping them together, or to imply one is akin to the other.
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I didn't think you meant to cause offense and didn't take any. Since most religious polygamy occurs in nigh cult like environments (at least here, I don't know enough about African or Islamic polygamy to comment) and underage marriage can occur with parental consent it is probably legally impossible to make such a distinction as things stand.
I only raise the point since he grouped group relationships with the more concerning categories as something to fear on the scary slippery slope that ends in child molestation. -.-
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08-05-2010, 01:57 PM
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My remark about NAMBLA is quite apparently over your head. It is more a statement about the slippery slope that may be in front of us (some posters got it and, as was thier right, refuted it) With people like you (who believe anything goes) the NAMBLA statement is probably not that far out of the realm of possibility. See, I can make stupid assumptions too.
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Starting with assumption that your remark was over his head. While I don't think a slippery slope is a completely off-the-wall concern in this area (though not nearly to the degree many are trying to make it), you're on a totally different hill because your example by definition involves minors, which raises an entirely different set of legal concerns.
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MC can you elaborate on why SCOTUS is not likely to take up the case if it is overturned on appeal?
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It's just a guess, and I could easily be wrong. Four of the nine justices have to vote to take a case for the Supreme Court to hear it. As a general rule, they prefer to take cases where there is a divurgence of opinions among the circuit courts of appeals -- split circuits, it's called. They view their job as being to resolve the split among the circuits.
Also as a general rule, they prefer to let cases percolate up among the circuits to see if a split or a consensus develops. Why should they use up their limited time on a case if the circuits end up being in agreement?
So my hunch on this one is that if the Ninth Circuit reverses, which would basically perserve a status quo in that circuit, they'll think it prudent to wait and see what happens in other cases in other circuits. But if the Ninth Circuit affirms, I think at least four of them will think the decision constitutes enough of a legal shift with potential effects outside California and the Ninth Circuit that they have to step in and decide themselves.
But I could be quite wrong.
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08-05-2010, 03:10 PM
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The will of the majority cannot violate the rights of the minority.
Amazing how judges are only activist when they disagree with you.
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Touche' - cuts both ways. So you won't disagree with a decision if it is something you don't agree with? What if I am of the minority and you are the majority and a judge finds for the minority? Will you exercise your right to disagree as well or will you just bend over and take it?
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Starting with assumption that your remark was over his head. While I don't think a slippery slope is a completely off-the-wall concern in this area (though not nearly to the degree many are trying to make it), you're on a totally different hill because your example by definition involves minors, which raises an entirely different set of legal concerns.
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My example of NAMBLA was extreme to make a point. To my knowledge NAMBLA has not asked for marriage privleges. That does not mean that it is out of the realm of possibility (incremental creep has started) for them to attempt to have it legalized. It was somewhat "tongue in check" but I guess that was lost on everyone.
There is a "slippery slope", however and we are on it.
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08-05-2010, 03:15 PM
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Touche' - cuts both ways. So you won't disagree with a decision if it is something you don't agree with? What if I am of the minority and you are the majority and a judge finds for the minority? Will you exercise your right to disagree as well or will you just bend over and take it? 
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I can disagree with a decision and agree that it was the right one based on the law. I can also disagree and think it was the wrong one. I don't act like a well respected judge acted on a whim.
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My example of NAMBLA was extreme to make a point. To my knowledge NAMBLA has not asked for marriage privleges. That does not mean that it is out of the realm of possibility (incremental creep has started) for them to attempt to have it legalized. It was somewhat "tongue in check" but I guess that was lost on everyone.
There is a "slippery slope", however and we are on it.
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You neither made a point nor were particularly funny. There is no incremental creep to legalizing marriage contracts with minors who cannot consent to sex much less marriage. That's like saying a leash law means you can lock children in cages like animals.
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08-05-2010, 03:29 PM
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Stop caring what consensual adults do in bed.
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I don't and you based on what you quoted from me you know that as well.
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You neither made a point nor were particularly funny. There is no incremental creep to legalizing marriage contracts with minors who cannot consent to sex much less marriage. That's like saying a leash law means you can lock children in cages like animals.
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I hate to inform you of this but "tongue in cheek" does not necessarily mean funny.
If the legal age for marriage is less than 18 with parental or guardian consent and a man wants to marry a 16 year old boy and the parents/guardian approve does that make it acceptable to you? It certainly would be legal.
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08-05-2010, 03:39 PM
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My example of NAMBLA was extreme to make a point.
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Your example of NAMBLA was extreme to the point of apples and oranges, with apples being the case at hand and oranges playing into derogatory stereotypes. A truly valid point can usually be made, and made more effectively, without resorting to extremes.
I had gotten the impression from other posts of yours that you're more or less libertarian. Guess I was wrong about that?
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08-05-2010, 03:52 PM
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Your example of NAMBLA was extreme to the point of apples and oranges, with apples being the case at hand and oranges playing into derogatory stereotypes. A truly valid point can usually be made, and made more effectively, without resorting to extremes.
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This is exactly what I was trying to say, but you did it with great eloquence. I wanna be like you when I grow up!
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08-06-2010, 10:09 AM
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Your example of NAMBLA was extreme to the point of apples and oranges, with apples being the case at hand and oranges playing into derogatory stereotypes. A truly valid point can usually be made, and made more effectively, without resorting to extremes.
I had gotten the impression from other posts of yours that you're more or less libertarian. Guess I was wrong about that?
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Point taken.
I am libertarian in some things. Drugs, government oversight and such but really am more of a states rights conservative. I believe that power not enumerated to the Federal Government belong to the states. This was a main point of the Articles of Confederation and was a key basis for the framework of our Constitution. This is what James Madison believed and fought to maintain.
Alexander Hamilton believed the opposite that the government had all powers not denied it by the constitution. With the Republican assendency in the mid 1800's the power of the Federal government was increased to the point where Hamilton would be greatly pleased.
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08-05-2010, 03:40 PM
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If the legal age for marriage is less than 18 with parental or guardian consent and a man wants to marry a 16 year old boy and the parents/guardian approve does that make it acceptable to you? It certainly would be legal.
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What would the difference be if it was a boy rather than a girl?
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08-05-2010, 03:56 PM
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I don't and you based on what you quoted from me you know that as well.
I hate to inform you of this but "tongue in cheek" does not necessarily mean funny.
If the legal age for marriage is less than 18 with parental or guardian consent and a man wants to marry a 16 year old boy and the parents/guardian approve does that make it acceptable to you? It certainly would be legal.
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I'm not in favor of parental permission marriages that cross statutory rape laws. If it was an 18 year old and a 16 year old I'm fine with it, a 40 year old and a 16 year old, no. Generally statutory rape laws include an age window.
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08-05-2010, 06:46 PM
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Isolated consanguinous marriages aren't usually a huge problem, but inmarriages in a community over a long period of time like we've seen in the Azkanazi Jews and in a couple families in Zwolle, LA result in genetic diseases such as Tay Sachs and Proprionic Acidemia, respectively.
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08-05-2010, 03:34 PM
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It was somewhat "tongue in check" but I guess that was lost on everyone.
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No. We understood what you were trying to do and that you intended it to be tongue in chEEk, but the very fact that you made that particular parallel is reflective of your presuppositions. You seem to be blind to your bias.
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You neither made a point nor were particularly funny. There is no incremental creep to legalizing marriage contracts with minors who cannot consent to sex much less marriage. That's like saying a leash law means you can lock children in cages like animals.
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Yes.
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