Disclaimer: If your job blocks facebook, you may not be able to see these. But I am too lazy to upload them any place else.
Last year, my friend crossed Delta and I had a spec' in my alumni chapter. We had a joint dinner and I gave them their crossing gifts:

What you do not see, and what I forgot to photograph, is that the backs of the paddles have our pictures on them. The Alpha's had a pic of the both of us at a convention, and the Delta's had a photo from us from a while back. Yay decoupage.
The next year, my Delta friend had a dinner for my 7th Alphaversary, and she gave me a paddle she made herself

The back says "O-Ren Ishii" (Lucy Liu's character in Kill Bill, aka Cottonmouth) -- sorta like the alter ego to "Mr. Matter-of-Factly"