Dumpee or Dumper. Which is better?

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by dreamseeker

the laughter is contaigous. k_s i'm considering this revenge for my siggy.

Damn you...I clicked it again

I can't keep looking at mo naked hoes. This is terrible for my productivity lol

[pshsx1]

Originally Posted by mealPlanLover

Being the dumpee is definitely more painful, but most of the time you're not seen as the asshole who broke her heart or something along those lines. As such, I would much rather get dumped that dump someone. Hence why when Im done with a long term relationship I find ways of convincing them to end it rather than doing so myself.

So you're that person no one ever wants to date... cool.

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

Damn you...I clicked it again

I can't keep looking at mo naked hoes. This is terrible for my productivity lol

So I clicked that thing for the first time... good lord lol... it is horrible!

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by pshsx1

So I clicked that thing for the first time... good lord lol... it is horrible!

I really want to know what dude is saying lol

[pshsx1]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

I really want to know what dude is saying lol

lol I'm gunna have to watch the movies with no sound until I see mo naked hoes.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

I really want to know what dude is saying lol

I can't link pics because I'm still at the hospital, but it's "po-ta-toes"

Which is anachronistic because Middle Earth is a history of England and potatoes are a new world product, but it's true to the text.

/nerd

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

/nerd

Agreed

But thank you lol

[33girl]

Originally Posted by mealPlanLover

lol, that would explain a lot. Its definitely something I need to avoid doing in the future, I just get too lazy to do, especially in a long term relationship, where it eventually gets driven to the point where its obvious to both parties the relationship has been over for a while.

I've been in that situation and I know it's hard. If you get to the point where you just have to sit down and write out a "see ya later" letter (not email or text), then do that. Face to face discussions sometimes go off on tangents and you don't get to put your point across.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by mealPlanLover

lol, that would explain a lot. Its definitely something I need to avoid doing in the future, I just get too lazy to do, especially in a long term relationship, where it eventually gets driven to the point where its obvious to both parties the relationship has been over for a while.

No, you're not too lazy, you don't want to be the "bad guy" so you make sure she decides the relationship has been over for a while.