My "adoptive" grandmother (I'm not really related to her, she's more of my grandfather's good friend) is a house mother at ABC fraternity in another state. She has told me that she's been to conferences with other house mothers, including some of those affiliated with the school at which I am rushing this fall. Would it be appropriate for me to ask her to write me a recommendation even though she may not be an alumna of the sorority to which I want to send the rec? I know that you're not supposed to have someone recommend you to a sorority they are not affiliated with, but because she is a house mother (although at a fraternity) would that be okay?
Thank you so much for your feedback!
The only person who can write you a rec for abc sorority is an alumna of abc sorority.
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