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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
*Any mention of your kids or babymamas.
*Anytime a guy says "Oh I don't read."
*Overly metrosexual appearance.
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
*Talking about money (either how much you have or how broke you are).
*Referring to exes as "psycho." Chances are good that your last relationship did not end solely because she was "crazy." I never buy that.
*Detailed discussion of exes and/or repeated name-dropping of one ex.
*Excessive discussion about drinking/partying. If every story you tell starts with "This one time, I was really wasted..." it's not going to work out.
*Lack of tangible career goals. Ex: "I'm working on getting my band off the ground" is not a career goal.
*Constant discussion of ones' material possessions. Ex: your car, TV, condo, etc.
*Music snobbery. If you ask me what bands/groups/artists I like, I tell you, and you launch into some big spiel about how they're "sellouts" or how you "don't get how that's considered music" it's not going to work out.
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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid
"So...we ain't never gonna have sex?"
"Can I at least get a kiss?"
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Yes, yes, and YES!
I'll add: bad conversation skills. If you can't talk carry a basic conversation, and keep the conversation going, it's really not inspiration to go out again.
Not paying for the first date. I'm all for equal rights and what not. I feel the only way a woman should pay for the first date if:
1. she specifically says she's treating
2. she invited him to something that costs money (ie. admission)
3. if she did the asking. this is tricky, because it has to be specifically be referred to as a date. none of this "whatcha up to, let's 'hang out' tonight." friends hang out. friends also pay for themselves. hanging out puts you on equal ground. with a date, however, whoever is doing the asking out should take the responsibility of paying and deciding on the whereabouts. of course the other person should have input but i get really annoyed when i'm asked out on a date, we meet up, then it's all "so.. where do you want to go?"