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Originally Posted by GeorgiaGPhiB
Hello Fellow GCer's,
I am super excited about being selected to be a Fall '10 Pi Chi and was wondering if the genius that is GC had any tips, memories, or wishes for a new Pi Chi? I would love to know ...
... what made your Pi Chi good/bad?
... what was a tip/trick that really helped all of your PNM's?
... what had you wished your Pi Chi done for you?
... cute games, songs, or crafts they did?
... how they revealed their sororites ties to you?
... what you feel is important for us to tell PNM's?
... whatever you want me to know
Thank you so much in advance. I have learned so much from this site and from all the lovely sisters on it.
Thank you,
A new Pi Chi
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I guess my advice would be to remember why you are there...to serve the PNM, not GPhiB. It gets really hard to remember that when a PNM you love is telling you she is torn between XYZ and GPhiB, and you have to stay neutral. It is even harder when a PNM you can't stand tells you that GPhiB is the chapter of her dreams, and you are ITCHING to pick up the phone to call your chapter and spill your guts about what you know! You, however, are there to help each of these women figure out the best place for each of them...not the best place for them in your opinion.
One of the hardest things I had to do was advise a PNM to put KD first because she liked them most rather than AOII even though she thought AOII was the "safe" choice. I would have loved to have her as a sister, but her heart was in another place. If I'd have pushed her towards AOII, it would have been so selfish of me.
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