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Originally Posted by abcd89
I was pledging for about two weeks. I went to lunches and dinner at the house, and the new member meetings. There was only one event during that period and i was unable to attend it. I know I was making an effort to get to know the girls, but in the end I just wasn't clicking with anyone, and it felt like a chore to go to the house. I don't regret my decision of dropping the house, I have found other things to be involved in but in the back of my mind I always think about being in a sorority.
I guess I should admit that I think I made a wrong decision during the prefs round. I think i would have been happier in one of the others but i ranked them on the reputations i had heard. I know that was a huge mistake on my part.
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Giving an organization 2 weeks is hardly "making an effort" like you say. It almost sounds like you decided to depledge, not because you didn't feel a "connection" with these women but, because you thought you may have been "too good" for these women.
Every NPC at Florida is incredible and if you check out each chapter's website, you will see that they all strive for the same thing-SISTERHOOD. I don't feel bad for your decision making and I don't think someone who believes she is "above" certain chapters really deserves a second chance at an SEC school when she is a Junior. Normally I would say "good luck" and that I hope you find a home at any of the incredible chapters at Florida. This time-not so much.
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