I would never allow a brother to wear my letters on his butt, he's disrespecting me and every one of my brothers by doing that. As far as pledge wear goes, my chapter has a strict policy for it; nothing but the bid day shirt can have anything with ATΩ letters on them. That includes spelled out. For big bro/little bro reveal most of the big bros buy their little bro a stitched letter shirt, but make them wait until initiation to wear it. It works, nobody ever complains, and as a pledge it really put what it meant to wear letters into perspective for me. Just my two cents, and you get the glory of being my first post, so congrats