What Chilli Wants

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I know, right??? HOWEVER, how can she not budge on drinking and eating pork but having 2 different "baby mamas" is okay? Maybe I'm just thinking with a 24yo mind on that one and things are different at her stage of life (and if "ex-wife" is included in "baby mama" that makes more sense).

To be quite honest, I think most women have a laundry list in their heads and, perhaps on an unconscious level, disqualify men for superficial reasons. Chilli's just so daggone bold about hers. But she's obviously flexible about them because ol' boy from the social function eats pork and she's willing to have a second date with him.

What is the problem with pork? Is she Jewish or Muslim? Otherwise, what is wrong with pulled pork sandwiches?

[BabyPiNK_FL]

I can relate to her list. After I broke up with my ex and thought to myself, what do I want ideally want in a man? Why? Because I'd not thought about it before.

Once I did I promptly realized that A) This man doesn't exist and B) I really don't care. I think it's okay to want what you want and as you go along flex it to your needs. You've gotta start somewhere and if you don't make a starting point, it probably won't end well. The guy probably will be nothing like the list at the end anyway .