Daughter's friend's recruitment

[Ooh La La]

Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

im not greek yet so idrk what id do if i were apart of that chapter. if the girl did all that cuz she thought a certain chapter was were she belonged isnt that kinda a complement to that chapter? i mean its kinda like finding a bf right? sometimes you gotta reject the ones that arent good enough to find the one for you!!!!!

No, it's not like that at all. If you go into recruitment with that attitude, you'll only come out disappointed. You need to be respectful of all the chapters on campus and keep an open mind. You shouldn't go in concentrating on getting into only one specific chapter, but rather see what all the houses have to offer. Read what the above posters have said. Just because you think a chapter might be right for you going into recruitment doesn't mean it is.

[Katmandu]

Logistically, I am having trouble following this one, although the cautionary tale is clear.

She went through formal, dropped out, then accepted a bid from a chapter recolonizing.... then de-pledged, and went through informal, (although wouldn't she have to waiit a year if it was a NPC group) then formal spring, then COB? Did this take place over the course of two years, because of the de-pledging?