This particular topic should be good for adolescents, particularly teen-aged girls.
I once heard a comedian say that he/she believed that a woman KNOWS from first sight whether she is going to sleep with a man or not. In MANY instances... THAT'S TRUE. And I TOTALLY agree with the Brother who said that most women have been taught that sex is basically "dirty" and it's their "moral duty" to say no. But women haveto realize that "teasing" MAY invite serious danger. And when teasing is used just to be mean or controlling, it kinda gives women a bad rap.
Now "sexual games" that involve teasing are INEVITABLE. Now, I'll be the first to admit that I have and STILL use teasing in THIS way. But it's with my HUSBAND (and we've been together for almost 11 years). And to be honest,... it's usually a lot of fun... FOR THE BOTH OF US. It's like winning a prize.
I do it sometimes now because, FOR ME, it's kinda like foreplay. Both my husband and I already KNOW that I'm going to give in. The question usually isn't IF I'll give in, but WHEN will I give in.
But as far as the dating scene goes, I think that "teasing" should be VERY limited because you may not know what you're getting yourself into or who you're dealing with.
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