American University date rape column angers students

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by sceniczip

I've never gone back to someone's room at a party other than my boyfriend's room. However, even when going to bf's room at a party they're hosting doesn't mean we're going to have sex. It means I don't want to be in the party any longer.

I do know girls who go into a male friend's room to lay down or who spend the night there without having sex. I have a very good friend who usually spends the night with one of our close male friends when his house hosts a party. They've never had sex, she just lives about 20 minutes away from him so doesn't go home when drinking.

Also, all guys don't just go to parties to find girls to have sex with. Sorry not buying that for a minute. Maybe some guys do, maybe most guys do, but not all of them.

Those are your FRIENDS though, right? Not random guys you meet.

I'm not saying every random guy is going to try force himself on you, or that you owe him any sex just because you want to leave the party at the same time, but if you are talking for any length of time with him, and you leave together, and then you go to his room, he is thinking "alright! I'm gonna get some!" He is not thinking "Alright! This girl is going to like my collection of jazz records so we can compare our thoughts on the diz and getz collaborations."

Seriously. The vast majority of people go out to parties, and bars, etc. in order to meet someone and hook up. That's why their called "parties."
Otherwise, they'd be called "meetings."

[sceniczip]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

Those are your FRIENDS though, right? Not random guys you meet.

I'm not saying every random guy is going to try force himself on you, or that you owe him any sex just because you want to leave the party at the same time, but if you are talking for any length of time with him, and you leave together, and then you go to his room, he is thinking "alright! I'm gonna get some!" He is not thinking "Alright! This girl is going to like my collection of jazz records so we can compare our thoughts on the diz and getz collaborations."

Seriously. The vast majority of people go out to parties, and bars, etc. in order to meet someone and hook up. That's why their called "parties."
Otherwise, they'd be called "meetings."

True, they are friends. I would never go back to a stranger's room for many reasons. If it's a stranger then you're probably right, he's thinking you're ready to have sex with him.

And idk about going to parties and bars in order to meet someone and hook up. I know a lot of my sisters go to the bars on Thursdays to just go out. They don't go out to hook up with someone.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by sceniczip

True, they are friends. I would never go back to a stranger's room for many reasons. If it's a stranger then you're probably right, he's thinking you're ready to have sex with him.

And idk about going to parties and bars in order to meet someone and hook up. I know a lot of my sisters go to the bars on Thursdays to just go out. They don't go out to hook up with someone.

Again, those are your SISTERS. I'm not yelling, I just don't feel like dealing with the italics thing.

And sometimes I go out for other reasons to, but not so much when I was in college. And even now, in the back of of mind, is always, "you might find something."

[Prettyface08]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

Again, those are your SISTERS. I'm not yelling, I just don't feel like dealing with the italics thing.

And sometimes I go out for other reasons to, but not so much when I was in college. And even now, in the back of of mind, is always, "you might find something."

I hope you get regular STD tests. Eww.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by sceniczip

True, they are friends. I would never go back to a stranger's room for many reasons. If it's a stranger then you're probably right, he's thinking you're ready to have sex with him.

And idk about going to parties and bars in order to meet someone and hook up. I know a lot of my sisters go to the bars on Thursdays to just go out. They don't go out to hook up with someone.

Again, those are your SISTERS. I'm not yelling, I just don't feel like dealing with the italics thing.

And sometimes I go out for other reasons to, but not so much when I was in college. And even now, in the back of of mind, is always, "you get find something."

[sceniczip]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

Again, those are your SISTERS. I'm not yelling, I just don't feel like dealing with the italics thing.

And sometimes I go out for other reasons to, but not so much when I was in college. And even now, in the back of of mind, is always, "you get find something."

I'm not sure what the fact that they're my sisters has to do with anything? I'm just saying that they are people who go out for the fun of dressing up and going out, not looking to hook up with someone. Most of the people I work with go out for fun, not to hook up with someone and they're not my sisters. Sure a few of them go out looking for someone to hook up with but most of them go out because they know someone having a party and want to go hang out.