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Originally Posted by APhiAnna
Now, I think the main problem is that there are very entrenched social circles in those societies that can be difficult, or near impossible, to break into. There are girls going to these schools whose families have known each other for generations. Their mother, aunt, grandmother and older sister may all have been bid by ABC at their same school, not to mention the fact that they have already been flagged because of their hometown, the ball where they were a debutante, high school, the fact that they went to Sunday School with Sister Susie, her dad golfs with Sister Sally and Sister Stacey's debutante escort was her older brother. In short: this girl was born and bred to be an ABC at University X.
Due to historical reasons, minorities have usually not managed to crack this inner-circle (and, like some have pointed out, those that do may be the "token" friends and not necessarily treated equally) and therefore are not going to be one of the PNMs the chapter is competing for the most.
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I agree. I think what's going to happen within the next 5-10 years is that we're going to see more young women of color whose families have cracked that "inner circle"--even in Texas and
some parts of the South. What's going to happen to them? It'll be interesting to find out.