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Originally Posted by acedawg00-02
Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...
And the truth is...
If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.
In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - the sh*t is totally unacceptable.
I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.
I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.
Whether it's football players who end up murdered b/c they forget that they have a wife and children at home, or politicians who are publicly humiliated b/c they chose to cheat or their terminally ill wives...if you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.
As my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."
It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.
Karma is a b****...treat people the way you want to be treated.
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I agree 110%!
I've been cheated on and lied to before and it SUCKS. I know I wouldn't go about this the way that he did, but I don't blame him, either.
This girl was cheating on him, but also knew that he was going to propose.. and she wasn't inclined to come clean?
Back in high school, I once kissed a guy when I was dating someone else, and the guilt ate away at me for just three days before I had to say something to my boyfriend about it and admit that things just weren't working out.
And yet this girl, after having repeatedly CHEATED on her boyfriend, was planning to marry him without saying a word? I can't imagine keeping a secret like that from my husband for the rest of my life. I'd go crazy.
If this whole thing wasn't staged (because I've had my suspicions as well, PM_Mama00), then this girl clearly has no conscience.
I say she got what she deserved.