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Originally posted by stoplook_listen
I know cheating is bad, but it's not as devistating as women make it out to be. Women read to much into it. Usually, when a man cheats, it's just to have an orgasm...a pleasure thing. It's no threat to our girl/wife. Its sounds ignorant, but the statement is true when we say "It didn't mean anything...I LOVE you...I was just F)#king her". You should only be hurt if the man is loosing feelings for you and cheating regularly. But if it was a little slip, due to getting seduced...then cut him some slack. It is really easy to get a mans penis on hard and the blood rushes from our brains and it's very difficult to think. It is not as easy and quick to get females aroused. You have to kiss and rub on them forever to get them wet. If a woman was put in the arousal state men are so easily put into, then maybe they would understand why it's so easy for us to fall victim to suduction!
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If a committed or married person is as WEAK as you stated, then they should never put themselves in a position to be alone with someone of the opposite sex. How can one cheat if one doesn't allow or have the opportunity.
I don't care what you're talking about. It doesn't go from zero to 100. As soon as one starts to feel more attraction than they should to someone else, be it emotionally, physically, etc., then remove yourself from the situation ASAP. Don't be like an animal (we are human beings, you know) and act like you can't have more control over your actions.
Again, plain and simple, people will always justify why it's okay for them to be SELFISH regardless of how it hurts others. That's the state of our world right now. COMPLETE SELFISHNESS. And why in the hell would you want to intentionally hurt someone? Is that the type of person you want to be?
I swear, people!! You have to grow up sometime and learn how to be a better, more responsible person. AND YES SOMETIMES THAT MEANS NOT BEING ABLE TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT OR FEEL LIKE DOING. YOU MAY ACTUALLY HAVE TO THINK OF SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOURSELF
. Try it sometime. It's not as hard as you think to be unselfish
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