-Just my take-
NPC sororities and IFC sororities have tried to standardize the pledge program much, much more than it used to be. IMO they are trying to take a cue from the NPHC groups, but not really succeeding.
The first problem with this is that every chapter is different, if in nothing else other than size. My pledge program (in the mid 80s) was seven weeks long. I felt this was ample time and didn't feel hurried or pressured. But - and this is a big BUT - my chapter only had 35 sisters at the time, and the Greek system itself was relatively small. I can't imagine my program in that time frame at a school like Penn State, or at a chapter with 150 sisters. You used to be able to tailor this more than you can now. I would never presume to tell another chapter what works for them. But that's exactly what's being done now - your program is 6 weeks, you do it in this manner, whether you have 15 or 215 members.
The second huge problem is that I would say half of the focus during pledging used to be on getting to know your chapter members, your campus - the other half on national history, etc. It seems like over time that first half has been chipped away more and more. The issue is that it's a complete 180 from the way NPC and NIC groups rush. Rush is almost completely based on how you feel about that chapter's members and how they feel about you - then once pledging starts, it turns into "OK, it's all about national history/national program now." IMO it's like throwing a med student into the busiest emergency room in town. This was what everyone was talking about in that "want to start Tri Delta" thread - love for your chapter comes first, from that grows love for the national org. This isn't a problem for NPHC groups, because their whole process - from researching, to rush functions, to intake - is like this.
We can't sell people with one thing and then expect them to be happy when they find they've purchased another.
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