THIRD times a charm?

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Originally Posted by PinkSugar

During informal recruitment I only attended one houses party out of four and did not receive a bid. I just finished formal recruitment about a month ago and the night before pref. I had been invited back to three out of four houses, but pref. night I received no invites. I really would like to join so that I can have a more positive college experience but I'm afraid to rush again because it feels like my chances are very low. Has anyone else gone through three times or have any of you members seen girls rush three times? What are your thoughts?

I'm sorry that things aren't working out.

Whether you should rush again is up to you.

My biggest advice would be to consider your school. Is it competitive? Do very many girls re-rush and have success? Do chapters favor freshmen?

Also, consider YOU. Ask yourself: "What is going to be different next time that will make sororities interested in taking a 2nd look at me?"

For example: Did you have a low GPA or something? Going through with the same grades isn't going to yield a different result. Were you shy? Going through and not improving your conversation skills isn't going to make things any different. Something has to be different.

Another thing: You CAN have a great college experience without being Greek. If you hold Greek Life to be the ONLY way to have a good college experience, you'll never be satisfied.