Opinions, please?

[33girl]

Dave evidently needed someone to wear the pants. The treadmill and the cutting up the cards are actually good things - they just shouldn't have happened so soon. The account is a good idea too, but not with her name on it.

Are you sure she's a real girlfriend and not a professional organizer that he hired and is lying about the sex? I say this in all seriousness.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Dave evidently needed someone to wear the pants. The treadmill and the cutting up the cards are actually good things - they just shouldn't have happened so soon. The account is a good idea too, but not with her name on it.

Are you sure she's a real girlfriend and not a professional organizer that he hired and is lying about the sex? I say this in all seriousness.

That's an interesting point - I hadn't thought about that.

I agree, he needs to lose & tone, and get on a better budget. And heaven knows, I do NOT want to get in the middle of this - I know how to keep my mouth shut. I wonder at times if she's a domanatrix, though.

Oh, the latest bit: she told Dave that none of his women friends (his guy friends' wives or girlfriends) have any taste. I got an email from one of the wives, and it was scorching!

[33girl]

I don't think she's a professional dom. The amount of time she spends with Dave would take too much time away from other clients (who probably have way more $$$). Is she a dominatrix in the colloquial sense? Yes, definitely.

[James]

If she told Dave that none of the wives had any taste and then he passed it along he is an idiot. Passing that comment along is guaranteed to cause problems.

1. The age issue isn't one really. Odd that she brings it up unless she is seeking approval.

2. The disparity in income is more coincidence. His income isn't high enough to make him a real target.

3. If they are both fat and ugly, what can you do? There is someone for everyone.

4. Maybe he needs a mommy figure? I have known 2 guys in my life that are completely self destructive without a mommy type GF.

It is a shame she seems so controlling about it though. She could hide her domination more.

Be polite and nice to her. Its david's life so try to be supportive unless something goes really wrong.

Originally Posted by honeychile

That's an interesting point - I hadn't thought about that.

I agree, he needs to lose & tone, and get on a better budget. And heaven knows, I do NOT want to get in the middle of this - I know how to keep my mouth shut. I wonder at times if she's a domanatrix, though.

Oh, the latest bit: she told Dave that none of his women friends (his guy friends' wives or girlfriends) have any taste. I got an email from one of the wives, and it was scorching!