does being greek help you to find relationships?

[ZXDelt304]

Being in a social fraternity will only help your social skills. But as the others have said, if you are having a lot of social problems now (not saying you actually are) then a fraternity can only do so much. I personally did not have a lot of new friends when I started college. I was still hanging out with good friends from high school whom attended the same college. However, I have always been able to make friends quickly. So, when I rushed I instantly made tons of new, great, friends and now brothers. So, if you have the capability of making friends easily then it will be great for you.

As with girls.. I have to side with the others. Just because swaps, date parties, and parties in general are thrown in your face doesnt mean you will have a great chance of "hooking up" or a relationship if you werent already good at it. As some of the ladies here can tell you, sorority girls are mostly not too quiet, reserved, and up against the wall during a dance/party. So if you are, they probably wont be interested. That doesnt mean that you can not learn social confidence from a fraternity. That is probably the best place to actually learn it from. Good luck in wherever you go if you do.