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12-04-2009, 10:25 PM
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Members unassociated with the violations may remain unaffiliated members of Delta Delta Delta.
New members yet to be initiated will be released from their membership and allowed to join another sorority, according to the release.
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Don't they mean alumnae members? I mean, the chapter is closed, but they are still Alpha Phi Chapter DDDs.
And how long is pledging that they wouldn't be initiated by now?
I don't think this writer was quite on the ball.
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12-04-2009, 11:50 PM
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From what I know, Penn State's formal rush concludes at the end of October, so it's possible there are still organizations that have not held initiation.
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12-04-2009, 11:57 PM
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oh, then that makes sense. I thought they were done w/ rush at the end of September.
As an aside, I was looking at some of the other articles in the Collegian re the Greeks. Can someone please explain to me the concept of an "away bar"?
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12-05-2009, 04:26 PM
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oh, then that makes sense. I thought they were done w/ rush at the end of September.
As an aside, I was looking at some of the other articles in the Collegian re the Greeks. Can someone please explain to me the concept of an "away bar"?
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Hmmmmm....I'm not sure what an away bar is, but I am saddened for the women of Tri-Delt. Penn State has a rich Greek history, and even as a member of another sorority from PSU, I think this is a sad day for all of the chapters.
The rules have been changing a lot lately, regarding socials and what not. Maybe that is what the away bar is about. As far as initiation, I know my chapter just initiated the girls not too long ago. Tri-Delt may be a few weeks after my GLO for initiation. This is sad news.
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12-05-2009, 07:55 PM
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So sad. For the collegians to throw away so much for so little. And not just for themselves but for all of their Penn State alumnae to lose their chapter as well.
At the same time, I'm really thankful to have Tri Delta leaders who won't tolerate such behavior. It is contrary to everything we stand for as Tri Deltas.
Sad, sad, sad...
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12-05-2009, 11:06 PM
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So sad. For the collegians to throw away so much for so little. And not just for themselves but for all of their Penn State alumnae to lose their chapter as well.
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Unless you know the ENTIRE story personally, and were there, I would be extremely careful about comments like "throw away so much for so little." To automatically assume the collegians are 110% in the wrong is as disloyal as questioning the decision of your HQ would be.
Also, unless you know alumnae personally, you don't know what their outlook is on this.
I'm sorry but assumptions like this grind my gears. It's a time to support all your sisters, not just the ones in national office.
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12-05-2009, 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted by 33girl
Unless you know the ENTIRE story personally, and were there, I would be extremely careful about comments like "throw away so much for so little." To automatically assume the collegians are 110% in the wrong is as disloyal as questioning the decision of your HQ would be.
Also, unless you know alumnae personally, you don't know what their outlook is on this.
I'm sorry but assumptions like this grind my gears. It's a time to support all your sisters, not just the ones in national office.
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I do support my Tri Delta sisters. I feel badly for the alumnae who have lost their chapter. As a sister from a closed chapter (numbers, not hazing), I know what it is like to not have a chapter home any longer. It is awful. Having been through the experience of seeing my own chapter close, I feel deeply for the women involved.
And as an alumna who understands the value of sorority membership as a life-long opportunity, I DO think it is throwing away a great deal. No, I don't know the whole story. But I do know that if some of those women end up losing their membership over this, they have lost a great deal.
I don't really understand why you were offended by assumptions you thought I was making, but trust me. I'm grieved for everyone involved. I don't need to know the whole story to know it is a very sad situation. Breaking the rules of the university and the sorority shouldn't be tolerated by any organization. And if we don't police ourselves, you can be sure someone from outside of the Greek world will step in and do it for us. So, from that standpoint, I'm thankful that our leadership is apparently trying to protect the organization as a whole by addressing what must have been a bad situation.
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12-05-2009, 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted by 33girl
Don't they mean alumnae members? I mean, the chapter is closed, but they are still Alpha Phi Chapter DDDs.
And how long is pledging that they wouldn't be initiated by now?
I don't think this writer was quite on the ball.
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They are members of the Alphi Phi chapter of DDD but according to our Bylaws, they are classified as unaffiliated collegiate members since a chapter no longer exists on the campus where they attend college/university. When they graduate, they will be considered alumnae members of Tri Delta.
Former new members are being treated in accordance with NPC UA's.
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12-05-2009, 12:38 PM
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They are members of the Alphi Phi chapter of DDD but according to our Bylaws, they are classified as unaffiliated collegiate members since a chapter no longer exists on the campus where they attend college/university. When they graduate, they will be considered alumnae members of Tri Delta.
Former new members are being treated in accordance with NPC UA's.
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Thanks for the clarification.  If they transfer somewhere else with a DDD chapter, can they reaffiliate, or is that a case by case basis?
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12-05-2009, 12:42 PM
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Thanks for the clarification.  If they transfer somewhere else with a DDD chapter, can they reaffiliate, or is that a case by case basis?
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If they are in good standing, they can affiliate at any other Tri Delta chapter.
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One of the founders of the PSU chapter (or so she said) lived next door to us when I was growing up. She now lives only about 20 minutes away - I'm sure this is breaking her heart! I can remember her showing me The Trident and pointing out what her chapter was up to.
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