Has someone of the opposite sex ever tried to pledge to your chapter?

[akamie]

What I mean by there aren't rules is that at least of the 4 fraternities and sororities we have on campus, there isn't anything codified that defines gender as a standard for membership. For example, in our chapter's bylaws it says we can't deny membership to "anyone" on the basis of sexual orientation, and while all the language uses "her" in other rules, we're trying to consider what happens legally when a male, who identifies as a female, tries to pledge.