For where to get recs?

[baci]

I can actually see this happening and it is not so strange to me.

Not every area has a strong alum. panhellenic that will get you all the recs you need.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by baci

I can actually see this happening and it is not so strange to me.

Not every area has a strong alum. panhellenic that will get you all the recs you need.

I can understand them saying "we only have members from X, Y and Z so that's all we can give you recs for." Places with all 26 I'm sure aren't the norm. But this sounds like they actually HAVE members of all the groups at her school and are asking her to pick in advance, knowing she doesn't have any other outlets to obtain recs. As I said - completely contrary to Panhellenic's mission, and deserving of a reprimand if there is such a thing.

[FSUZeta]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I can understand them saying "we only have members from X, Y and Z so that's all we can give you recs for." Places with all 26 I'm sure aren't the norm. But this sounds like they actually HAVE members of all the groups at her school and are asking her to pick in advance, knowing she doesn't have any other outlets to obtain recs. As I said - completely contrary to Panhellenic's mission, and deserving of a reprimand if there is such a thing.

totally agree with 33. this just sounds weird and against the panhellenic spirit AND not in the pnms best interest to choose prior to recruitment which groups to "concentrate" on, by only being able to request a certain # of recs.

of course, i am not saying look a gift horse in the mouth, either. i would give the ladies a list of all the chapters on your campus with a note saying that you plan on giving each chapter an equal chance, and would appreciate a rec. to each one,as you would be proud to be a member of any of them. maybe they will come thru with recs. for all, after reading your sweet note.

[GPhiBLtColonel]

If I am not mistaken, only one or two alum panhellenics nationwide have representation from all 26 sororities. Our alum panhel has 18 or 19, I think and we help girls get recs to all sororities represented in our membership, although we did have members from DPhiE and ASA who said they only did Legacy-type recs....

[33girl]

Originally Posted by GPhiBLtColonel

although we did have members from DPhiE and ASA who said they only did Legacy-type recs....

Clarify, please.

[Denise_DPhiE]

Originally Posted by GPhiBLtColonel

If I am not mistaken, only one or two alum panhellenics nationwide have representation from all 26 sororities. Our alum panhel has 18 or 19, I think and we help girls get recs to all sororities represented in our membership, although we did have members from DPhiE and ASA who said they only did Legacy-type recs....

DPhiE members will write recs - it just turns out that the # of schools where dphie is + schools where you need recs is not a huge group. We have no national policy on writing recs nor one for legacies only. We also don't have a badge disposition policy or badge seekers or keepers etc.

[Thetagirl218]

I agree with the above comments! I would try networking, but I would also email your local Panhellenic as has been advised above.

Only telling a member that they will only give them 1/3 of recs of the ladies they have in their group is totally against the spirt of Panhellenic.