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Originally Posted by 33girl
You may not receive any absolutely defining answer one way or the other - i.e., just because they don't give you a bid now doesn't mean they won't give you a bid ever. So if you just don't hear anything, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're off their list forever. I know it might be difficult, but if this is the case, DON'T bug the sorority about what their decision is.
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I just saw this and I know this sounds stupid but if you didn't get a call, how SHOULD you behave? After not getting a call myself, I tried to remain friendly to the ones who bothered to continue to say hi and talk to me. But, then it's like it feels pointless to act as if you are good friends when they didn't extend a bid to you. So I often became withdrawn to most of the girls of the sorority I COB'd unless they said hi first.