Are Black Women Scaring Off Black Men

[TRUTH 101]

why do we have this black on black struggle,.

im going to break it down for you all on this thread as they call it.

we have to stop blameing eatch other and start blaming ourselves for the things that is going on with a black man not wantting a black women or a black women not wantting a black man. is that what it is about the color, the skin, im lightskin and i can tell you i didnt get here from two african american people its called being mixed. yes white and black makes a beautiful person. i have to say what am i do to im mixed should i go with a african american women or a white women well in this day in age, most men or women have or has dated different races. what do you find interesting about this race that you dont in another race, its not about what one should be with its about one being with someone that he can relate to , that he can feel good with, so lets say a white girl treats his man like a king, and a mexican treats him like a slave, and a african american treats him like shit, and an asian treats him like he should only love rice, now you tell me who would you go with, RIGHT the white girl! why cause she treats him like he should be treated. now in the defense of our women or sisters, dont take fault in a black man not wantting you, to me you have every right to have an attitude, every right not to open up your vault right away, i no that as easy as she can give you an attitude is as easy as she can smile if you give it time, its all up to our african men. ask yourself why do they have attitudes why are they so called ghetto, why do they seem to give it up like its no tommorow , well ant that what men do, we can be ghetto, we can be loud, we can be moody, you see the black man thats with the white girl, go up and talk to him, you would think you was talking to Alfonso Ribeiro from the The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. he most likely grew up in the suburbs and was brought up around whites, so how can be judge someone who like whites. the brother that grew up in the hood, who has no maners who only thinks of sex is always going to be down for the sisters, thats the sisters that are out here running wild, and giving sisters the bad name, so we have to look deeper in understanding that the black women are not scaring out the black men, i feel that it has to be equal treatment towards eatch other. most people in life always seem to pick the wrong person and that leads to people have bad experiences with the same race. so they look for something different and that saying once you go black you never go back well once you go another race/ youll never put on another chace/. i promise you i grew up dating african american women, and i have a handsome son with her, but she was ghetto well let me not say ghetto, she had hood like mentalitys that i relized as we were together, now if you go back into her life, she grew up in the hood , her mom died at a young age, so she only new how to be the way she was, like some of you say in these post , she was loud , she would love to cause a seen, she was imature, she was rude at times, but she was who she was cause of how and were she was raised. since then i have always had a bad taste in my mouth for african american women just that one bad experience did it for me, just that one did it.. after that i dated mexican women and i have to say they have there ways to, there controlling there fisty but i like that, i want a women to be strong and yes i like them a little crazy . I have dated an asian there real quite not the wild type but are good in bed, but thats not all im looking for, i have dated lightskin women that are mixed just like myself, and they are shy yet can have african american ways why shouldnt they , because they are black and white . RIGHT? So its not who you date or who you want to be with its about as long as your happy, stop saying that black girls have attitudes maybe its the way you approched her, maybe shes tired of men always calling her a bitch just cause she wont give a man her number, think about it women have been going through it for years, not just with men but back in slavery days, haveing babys with men that say oww i love you well im pregnant oww i though i loved you. DAMMM !!!!! women are fed up , and i feel why there the way they are but sister we love you, we love everything about you, but you treat us all the same, good men to professional men to good looking men you treat us as if were those thugs or niggas. you look at us as if we are trash so when we go to the other side its because its a cicle that is not yet broken we start if you finish we start if you finish we need to come together and try to love eatch other again. and women i hope you understand when we see you walking down the street or in that club we judge by action, by response, hay at least we tried. RIGHT? well i hope that i made some clearance to the madness so women just no your not scaring us away your making us relize what we are doing wrong and what we are. Im not mad at you like tu pac said, men or should i say satins that our out here are doing a good job of killing our black sisters spirits. and again us as men need to not give up if she has an attitude dont just say well fuck you bitch get to see why she is in a bad mood, if she is good in bed find out what else she is good at, if she is imature show her the way to being a women. be strong as a king and she will become a queen be soft as a whistle and she wont speak so loud, be nice and polite as you can and she wont be so mean, be a gentlemen and she will give you the world.

peace and love

from
THE TRUTH 101

[libramunoz]

Originally Posted by TRUTH 101

why do we have this black on black struggle,.

im going to break it down for you all on this thread as they call it.

we have to stop blameing eatch other and start blaming ourselves for the things that is going on with a black man not wantting a black women or a black women not wantting a black man. is that what it is about the color, the skin, im lightskin and i can tell you i didnt get here from two african american people its called being mixed. yes white and black makes a beautiful person. i have to say what am i do to im mixed should i go with a african american women or a white women well in this day in age, most men or women have or has dated different races. what do you find interesting about this race that you dont in another race, its not about what one should be with its about one being with someone that he can relate to , that he can feel good with, so lets say a white girl treats his man like a king, and a mexican treats him like a slave, and a african american treats him like shit, and an asian treats him like he should only love rice, now you tell me who would you go with, RIGHT the white girl! why cause she treats him like he should be treated. now in the defense of our women or sisters, dont take fault in a black man not wantting you, to me you have every right to have an attitude, every right not to open up your vault right away, i no that as easy as she can give you an attitude is as easy as she can smile if you give it time, its all up to our african men. ask yourself why do they have attitudes why are they so called ghetto, why do they seem to give it up like its no tommorow , well ant that what men do, we can be ghetto, we can be loud, we can be moody, you see the black man thats with the white girl, go up and talk to him, you would think you was talking to Alfonso Ribeiro from the The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. he most likely grew up in the suburbs and was brought up around whites, so how can be judge someone who like whites. the brother that grew up in the hood, who has no maners who only thinks of sex is always going to be down for the sisters, thats the sisters that are out here running wild, and giving sisters the bad name, so we have to look deeper in understanding that the black women are not scaring out the black men, i feel that it has to be equal treatment towards eatch other. most people in life always seem to pick the wrong person and that leads to people have bad experiences with the same race. so they look for something different and that saying once you go black you never go back well once you go another race/ youll never put on another chace/. i promise you i grew up dating african american women, and i have a handsome son with her, but she was ghetto well let me not say ghetto, she had hood like mentalitys that i relized as we were together, now if you go back into her life, she grew up in the hood , her mom died at a young age, so she only new how to be the way she was, like some of you say in these post , she was loud , she would love to cause a seen, she was imature, she was rude at times, but she was who she was cause of how and were she was raised. since then i have always had a bad taste in my mouth for african american women just that one bad experience did it for me, just that one did it.. after that i dated mexican women and i have to say they have there ways to, there controlling there fisty but i like that, i want a women to be strong and yes i like them a little crazy . I have dated an asian there real quite not the wild type but are good in bed, but thats not all im looking for, i have dated lightskin women that are mixed just like myself, and they are shy yet can have african american ways why shouldnt they , because they are black and white . RIGHT? So its not who you date or who you want to be with its about as long as your happy, stop saying that black girls have attitudes maybe its the way you approched her, maybe shes tired of men always calling her a bitch just cause she wont give a man her number, think about it women have been going through it for years, not just with men but back in slavery days, haveing babys with men that say oww i love you well im pregnant oww i though i loved you. DAMMM !!!!! women are fed up , and i feel why there the way they are but sister we love you, we love everything about you, but you treat us all the same, good men to professional men to good looking men you treat us as if were those thugs or niggas. you look at us as if we are trash so when we go to the other side its because its a cicle that is not yet broken we start if you finish we start if you finish we need to come together and try to love eatch other again. and women i hope you understand when we see you walking down the street or in that club we judge by action, by response, hay at least we tried. RIGHT? well i hope that i made some clearance to the madness so women just no your not scaring us away your making us relize what we are doing wrong and what we are. Im not mad at you like tu pac said, men or should i say satins that our out here are doing a good job of killing our black sisters spirits. and again us as men need to not give up if she has an attitude dont just say well fuck you bitch get to see why she is in a bad mood, if she is good in bed find out what else she is good at, if she is imature show her the way to being a women. be strong as a king and she will become a queen be soft as a whistle and she wont speak so loud, be nice and polite as you can and she wont be so mean, be a gentlemen and she will give you the world.

peace and love

from
THE TRUTH 101

Either you're a clown or you're a fool, because judging by your posts, I think that you're both.
You have some of the most IGNORANT, what's the word, oh yes, assumptions about Black Women that I have heard in many years.
You talk about Black women facing ignorant men, but just reading your post gave me a headache. You cannot spell, think, or write, and because of this, you THINK you have a CLUE as to what Black Women want?
You haven't the slightest clue and you are only showing that you're beyond ignorant, you're just asinine.
Being a mixed child has nothing to do with being an ignorant fool! All you are showing is that you have some SEVERE hangups that you are REFUSING to get over!
Do yourself a favor, get OVER yourself, go and FIND a life, and try to imagine a way to CONJURE up a decent coversation BEFORE you make a statement of any kind!
If this approach is the best way that you even go TOWARDS a woman, I can clearly understand why she runs, and I only have one word for her, RUN FAST!
In the end, this is all of what your so called "response" means: CLASSIC FOOL= EPIC FAIL.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by libramunoz

Either you're a clown or you're a fool, because judging by your posts, I think that you're both.
You have some of the most IGNORANT, what's the word, oh yes, assumptions about Black Women that I have heard in many years.
You talk about Black women facing ignorant men, but just reading your post gave me a headache. You cannot spell, think, or write, and because of this, you THINK you have a CLUE as to what Black Women want?
You haven't the slightest clue and you are only showing that you're beyond ignorant, you're just asinine.
Being a mixed child has nothing to do with being an ignorant fool! All you are showing is that you have some SEVERE hangups that you are REFUSING to get over!
Do yourself a favor, get OVER yourself, go and FIND a life, and try to imagine a way to CONJURE up a decent coversation BEFORE you make a statement of any kind!
If this approach is the best way that you even go TOWARDS a woman, I can clearly understand why she runs, and I only have one word for her, RUN FAST!
In the end, this is all of what your so called "response" means: CLASSIC FOOL= EPIC FAIL.

I was going to respond to him when I saw his post earlier, but I didn't understand what he was trying to say. I don't mean that as an insult, I really didn't understand his post.

But I understand clearly what you just said...

[TRUTH 101]

Originally Posted by libramunoz

Either you're a clown or you're a fool, because judging by your posts, I think that you're both.
You have some of the most IGNORANT, what's the word, oh yes, assumptions about Black Women that I have heard in many years.
You talk about Black women facing ignorant men, but just reading your post gave me a headache. You cannot spell, think, or write, and because of this, you THINK you have a CLUE as to what Black Women want?
You haven't the slightest clue and you are only showing that you're beyond ignorant, you're just asinine.
Being a mixed child has nothing to do with being an ignorant fool! All you are showing is that you have some SEVERE hangups that you are REFUSING to get over!
Do yourself a favor, get OVER yourself, go and FIND a life, and try to imagine a way to CONJURE up a decent coversation BEFORE you make a statement of any kind!
If this approach is the best way that you even go TOWARDS a woman, I can clearly understand why she runs, and I only have one word for her, RUN FAST!
In the end, this is all of what your so called "response" means: CLASSIC FOOL= EPIC FAIL.

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Ok ok I understand were you coming from now I am scared of black women see people this is why we have problems you clown me because of my spelling because I’m typing fast, is that all you have is to call me names. I won’t worry about that to me that’s just jealousy. I have a black girlfriend so I’m doing good, we get along just fine, but I can tell you this when you have a African American girlfriend and she looks at her own sisters in shame it goes to show why you are on here calling people names. I guess your one of the women I’m talking about, the women that is from the ghetto, that has no respect, that is single I bet your single right, don’t tell me your married cause I just wont believe it. I feel by the way your upset by my honest opinion

that you are the one with the issues of black men not wanting to be with a black women so hopefully you can come up with something a little better then that weak blow your trying to give me, and if you really have a problem we can meet up and take care of this like a black hood rat chick with weave in her hair that has big earrings and a chain that has her name across it you hood rat.

[libramunoz]

Originally Posted by TRUTH 101

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Ok ok I understand were you coming from now I am scared of black women see people this is why we have problems you clown me because of my spelling because I’m typing fast, is that all you have is to call me names. I won’t worry about that to me that’s just jealousy. I have a black girlfriend so I’m doing good, we get along just fine, but I can tell you this when you have a African American girlfriend and she looks at her own sisters in shame it goes to show why you are on here calling people names. I guess your one of the women I’m talking about, the women that is from the ghetto, that has no respect, that is single I bet your single right, don’t tell me your married cause I just wont believe it. I feel by the way your upset by my honest opinion

that you are the one with the issues of black men not wanting to be with a black women so hopefully you can come up with something a little better then that weak blow your trying to give me, and if you really have a problem we can meet up and take care of this like a black hood rat chick with weave in her hair that has big earrings and a chain that has her name across it you hood rat.

Are you a beauty or special ed dropout, because judging from your "response" I'm beginning to think that you are both.

Is THIS the best that you could/can do? Are you trying to insult me, because with what you are "attempting" to say, I cannot even BEGIN to muddle through this sad mess!

That's all you are showing is that you're a sad mess! And I quote "I guess your one of the women I’m talking about, the women that is from the ghetto, that has no respect." Without even beginning to DIGNIFY your so called "conclusion" and "psychoanalysis" of me, you just keep putting your foot in your mouth and wondering why I'm just handing you a spoon!

Oh, was that "too educated" for you to understand, or was it not "hoodrat" enough for you?

Lemme tell you something, I'm not upset AT ALL by your opinions, because they are just that, OPINIONS and everybody has one, including the ignorant. It doesn't mean they're right, it just means that hooked on phonics and actually paying attention don't always work for some people.

Again, you are the one that apparently has the problem with Black women, and I quote "a black hood rat chick with weave in her hair that has big earrings and a chain that has her name across it you hood rat." Ain't nobody throwing up race but YOU!

So do yourself a favor, go an get some psychoanalytical therapy or go and get some reality therapy and become like the dryer sheet--BOUNCE!

I said it yesterday and I'll say it again today: CLASSIC FOOL = EPIC FAIL!

[MasonsInquiries]

Originally Posted by libramunoz

That's all you are showing is that you're a sad mess! And I quote "I guess your one of the women I’m talking about, the women that is from the ghetto, that has no respect." Without even beginning to DIGNIFY your so called "conclusion" and "psychoanalysis" of me, you just keep putting your foot in your mouth and wondering why I'm just handing you a spoon!

i've saw his statement 5 to 6 times, and i can't believe it thinks he knows you......lol. wow, unbelievable. not knowing how to have class/respect has nothing to do where someone comes from....

[TRUTH 101]

It seems time and time again, this is why most black men dont date black women your way to complex. I only gave my opion and here comes the hater of the year. You start on me as if you know me, yes most hoodrats can have a degree. I personaly know somone that has a degree. We all no we act different around whites, and just cause your a hoodrat doesnt mean you have to act like one all the time. Your a professional during the day and a hoe at night thats the way it is, but it goes back to show that who ever this person is that is responding to my thread is why most black men dont go out with black women. you want to clown me, and talk bad on me when your moma so fat and clumsy she was on her way to wal-mart and tripped over k-mart and landed on TARGET !! you can be mad at me cause your mama make godzilla look like an action figure. Why be mad at me, cause you cant grow it so you sew it. but you still get mad at me cause no one wants you and cause i speak the truth you dont want to accept that, and who ever you are anyone can act like there educated, doesnt mean you are.

so next time grown folks are talking shut the f up. you hood rat

[ladygreek]

To whom are you speaking?

Time to lock down.

[Xanthus]

Originally Posted by TRUTH 101

It seems time and time again, this is why most black men dont date black women your way to complex. I only gave my opion and here comes the hater of the year. You start on me as if you know me, yes most hoodrats can have a degree. I personaly know somone that has a degree. We all no we act different around whites, and just cause your a hoodrat doesnt mean you have to act like one all the time. Your a professional during the day and a hoe at night thats the way it is, but it goes back to show that who ever this person is that is responding to my thread is why most black men dont go out with black women. you want to clown me, and talk bad on me when your moma so fat and clumsy she was on her way to wal-mart and tripped over k-mart and landed on TARGET !! you can be mad at me cause your mama make godzilla look like an action figure. Why be mad at me, cause you cant grow it so you sew it. but you still get mad at me cause no one wants you and cause i speak the truth you dont want to accept that, and who ever you are anyone can act like there educated, doesnt mean you are.

so next time grown folks are talking shut the f up. you hood rat

Dude, do you have any clue what you just typed? Serious question.

[jojapeach]

^^^ I think this will be like the answer to the number of licks to the center of a Tootsie Pop: "The world may never know." Dude seriously needs to sneak into an English 099R class.

I'm with LadyGreek now and would love to see this locked up.

[Lasonja]

Originally Posted by TRUTH 101

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Ok ok I understand were you coming from now I am scared of black women see people this is why we have problems you clown me because of my spelling because I’m typing fast, is that all you have is to call me names. I won’t worry about that to me that’s just jealousy. I have a black girlfriend so I’m doing good, we get along just fine, but I can tell you this when you have a African American girlfriend and she looks at her own sisters in shame it goes to show why you are on here calling people names. I guess your one of the women I’m talking about, the women that is from the ghetto, that has no respect, that is single I bet your single right, don’t tell me your married cause I just wont believe it. I feel by the way your upset by my honest opinion

that you are the one with the issues of black men not wanting to be with a black women so hopefully you can come up with something a little better then that weak blow your trying to give me, and if you really have a problem we can meet up and take care of this like a black hood rat chick with weave in her hair that has big earrings and a chain that has her name across it you hood rat.

Can you even read? You call yourself truth 101, but your tired ass hasn't done a damn thing but told 101 lies.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I just can't agree with what's been posted (with the exception of the comments about the men) I'll just say this one last thing, and then I'm going to leave this thread be, at least on this topic. I don't really like pointing the finger at her because to me, in today's society, it's the black men and men period who are not taking their leadership roles in the family and are instead becoming passive and indecisive. His s/o is supposed to be valued and revered as an equal partner, but a lot of men lack the ability to appropriately love and value her, and only her. I don't really like getting into the race part when it comes to relationships, because what it comes down to is serving the other person. And this goes back to serving a woman who respects herself, because one who doesn't is going to clown rather you serve her or not. To say "black women" don't treat their men right, is wrong on every level. If a man is not happy with how she is treating him (black or white), then I think it's a good idea for HIM to check what kind of treatment he is giving her and that's because she responds to the treatment that she is being given.

I'm not going to get into any further discussions about it though. We're both entitled to our own opinions on the issue.

Well said.