Do you guys judge people by their past Significant Others?

honeychile · #1 10-12-2009, 02:09 PM

People change. Needs change. The world changes.

I would worry more about whether or not the other person had ever been in a significant relationship rather than what the person was like. Although I am a little leery about the boy's ex being a gymnast.

DrPhil · #2 10-12-2009, 02:15 PM

Yes because I look at people's track records.

The common denominator in all of the relationships is YOU. Don't go on and on about crazy exes because I'll wonder why YOU keep looking for/finding crazy women. Or, why otherwise sane women keep turning crazy when they get with YOU.

KSUViolet06 · #3 10-12-2009, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil

Don't go on and on about crazy exes because I'll wonder why YOU keep looking for/finding crazy women.

This.

One of my biggest pet peeves is when a guy refers to several exes as "psycho" or "crazy." That's always a red flag to me.

Really, what are the odds that every single girl you've dated is "crazy?"