Advice?

33girl · #1 10-07-2009, 11:05 PM

If the GREEK LIFE OFFICE tells you that a certain sorority has inquired about women who are interested in COB, that's teh ONLY time you should approach the sorority.

Otherwise, COB is kind of like the Masons - asking for an invite is taboo. The girls invited are often already friends of sisters, which is the point - COB is to be more relaxed, not having to meet a bunch of people you don't know like regular formal rush.

Psi U MC Vito · #2 10-07-2009, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Otherwise, COB is kind of like the Masons - asking for an invite is taboo.

Um hate to break it to you, but you HAVE to ask in order to become a Mason.

MysticCat · #3 10-08-2009, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

Um hate to break it to you, but you HAVE to ask in order to become a Mason.

Right. That's how it works -- you ask them, they don't ask you. That's why they say, "2B1ASK1."

33girl · #4 10-08-2009, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

Um hate to break it to you, but you HAVE to ask in order to become a Mason.

Yeah, but I mean you have to get to the point where you feel comfy asking someone and with them sponsoring you. You don't just show up at a meeting and say "can I join" without knowing a soul. (Which is kinda what OP is proposing.)