I Need Help!

[JuliaNJ]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Stop being so judgemental.

Stop thinking joining a sorority will get you out of your rut in life. If you don't like your friends and hate dating emo boys, make new friends. You don't need to be in a sorority to do that, and quite frankly I doubt at this point that one would take you.

If your college is so small that you can't get out of your social group or meet new people, transfer to Penn State & be done with it.

The transfer thing is a no-go. I have to be fairly close to home to help out w/ some family things. Plus, aside from the stresses of my family life, I really love the school. On top of the newspaper, I've been helping out a few professors with research projects and have done some community service stuff through my dorm and the paper. I'm also on scholarship and transferring might mess that up.

But the more I think about it, the more I want to do it. I know I've been too judgmental of a person and willing to stereotype people. That's what I've come to realize I need to change the most about me. I know that if I pledge it isn't going to solve a lot (or any) of my problems but it can at least help me get to meet/become friends with people I've isolated myself from.