The Mom From Hell

[33girl]

Originally Posted by ellebud

Daughter just wanted three sororities and was dropped first night. (I suspect that there were more cuts than that.) Now, Mom wants her daughter to go through spring rush. Or informal rush at only the top houses.

This woman obviously doesn't care about her daughter's happiness at all, or she would have encouraged her to look at the groups that didn't drop her. She only wants to be able to say "little Zsa Zsa is a ABC at Blahblah U pledge."

If this woman is truly a friend that you want to keep in your orbit, you need to be blunt and tell her that her actions are ruining her daughter's chances not just for a happy rush but a happy life.

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by 33girl

This woman obviously doesn't care about her daughter's happiness at all, or she would have encouraged her to look at the groups that didn't drop her. She only wants to be able to say "little Zsa Zsa is a ABC at Blahblah U pledge."

If this woman is truly a friend that you want to keep in your orbit, you need to be blunt and tell her that her actions are ruining her daughter's chances not just for a happy rush but a happy life.

Perfectly said. Absolutely Perfect.

It is very difficult to be "blunt" but sometimes harsh or hard words need to be spoken.

I wish you very good luck in this situation, and I'm still thrilled for your Delta Gamma daughter.